Thank you so much everyone. She was an amazing, beautiful, smart cat.
Yes, the happy memories do help, but at the same time hurt. Eventually they will only help.
Kind of a funny one she used to do... I used to scratch on the bed to get her to jump up, it got to the point where she just didn't want to jump (not weak, just didn't want to) she would scratch on the side of the bed and look at me, like ok, I did it too. Then it got to where she would honestly scratch the same amount of times I did. Yes, very smart cat.
And, MJ, hugs back to you. I remember reading your post, but just couldn't find words at all that might help. I cried and cried over that, and the others that were lost around the same time. Partly for them, and partly since I knew Splitzie would be following soon. I had a dream last night that Splitzie was running in a field of nothing but catnip, she was with other cats I don't remember, maybe she was running with Butthead and the others from last weekend. I'm sure they are all happy now.
And, yes I believe all of the GAs from here were waiting for her and helped her to cross, along with animals I have lost in the past. Even though they did not know her, they shared the love from and for my family, and I believe that will bring them together.