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Thank you to everyone who wrote about my Sophie angel. I can't read much because I can't stop crying, but I do appreciate everyone's kindness.

This is the worst thing ever for me. I don't know how to rebuild my life without her. Everything I did, all my routines were centred around Sophie because she was my precious baby and now I am totally bereft. Still in total shock and disbelief and pain.

I have posted on Grief, where I have been a regular for a long time anyway, to say that I brought my baby back home yesterday. I know that not many people on this forum go there, or even knew about Sophie until last week, so I am going to post a few pictures here to show you what a complete beauty my baby was - and is. Not only was she the prettiest little girl in the world, she had the very sweetest, most loving nature. I am so very honoured to have spent 17 and a half years of my life with her, with her calling me her mum.

People keep telling me that I must take comfort from the fact that she is now with our beloved Tom. I so want to believe that because their lives together and with me were one long love story:

A special life, a special love:
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My heart is just in a billion pieces. The pain is just awful, awful and I feel I m going to die of grief.
 

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Diana,
I have a Sophie too, I know how special 'Sophies' can be. I really hope that in time you will find some comfort. I think now is too soon to expect that. There will be roses in Tom's Garden for Sophie too, and it will be extra beautiful! You will know she is happy to be with her Tom Tom. I'd write more, but I am about to cry.
 
((Diana))
I have beem reading your posts about Sophie and was so saddened to hear the
news the other day.
Both Sophie and Tom were very lucky and honoured to have had you for a
mum for so many years.
Yes it is okay to feel that your heart is in a billion pieces.

She is absolutely gorgeous and take comfort that she is now with Tom
across the bridge, together, forever and always.

((hugs))
 
It's tough right now - your heart is broken and you wonder how you're going to go on. You may need to relate the story to other animal lovers who WILL understand and hear you out.
What helped me a lot was---I sat down and poured out the whole sad story of my cat's passing and it really helped to get it down on paper.
I saved any notes I received, one especially nice card from one of his former vets.
I also made a little album of his photos.
I donated money to my library for a memorial stone - I bet he's the only cat listed on that wall, but it made ME feel good.
When I went into the hospital for a serious operation, I took a framed photo of him - he'd died about 3 months before. Whenever I was having a bad day with pain and wanting to reach for a gun to end it all, I gazed at his photo and thought of how HE faced his suffering that last day. Somehow, my pain passed away. Yes, they also serve uthey're gone.

I hope it is not too long before you begin to heal and can dwell upon those good times with Sophie.

RuthV
 
Diana, I've been thinking about you.
I wish i knew how to lessen your pain.
In time you will not hurt so bad, i hope.

Losing my Kitty Kat several years ago was very hard on me. I still have times when i cry
my heart out for that beautiful sweet cat, and for me i am able to cope now.

You will never forget Sophie and she would not want you to hurt so bad. It will take time
to be able to cope.
 
(((((((((((((((((((((((((DIANA))))))))))))))))))))))))

I am so sorry for your loss. I am glad that you have her home tho.
Wrapping you in many cyber hugs.
 
Diana, I just saw your post about Sophie and my heart hurts for you - the pictures are absolutely beautiful. What a gorgeous girl.

I'm so sorry - and send many healing prayers and thoughts your way.

Emmy & Dude (& Mittsi too)
 
(((( diana )))))))
what a lovely sweet smoochy face.
It hurts so darned much cause of how much you loved her.
so sorry you have to go through this. I'm on that road of grief too. you aren't alone...
although I know it probably feels like it.

take care of you . tom and sophie would want that.
 
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