SOPHIE - MY ANGEL

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Diana&Tom

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My worst fear has happened.
The vet found a tumour wrapped round her neck. He tried a tracheotomy but was unable to get oxygen into her.
My baby my baby who I love more than the whole world.
I don't know what to do withiut her
 
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I am so sorry to hear about little Sophie. Think of the joyful reunion she is having with Tom at the bridge. You have received many signs from Tom, and I am sure Sophie will send you a sign as well, to say that she is safe wtih Tom.
Dana
 
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Oh Diana, was so praying Sophie would come through this. You have my deepest and most heartfelt sympathy. She was your link with Tom too but now they are together again. May that bring you some peace. Just so heartbreaking........my heart goes out to you on this deep loss.
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I am so sorry for your loss.

May all your wonderful memories of Sophie, and her and Tom together,
bring you comfort.

They are together again. You will all be together again someday.
 
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Oh no..I am so vry sorry for your loss. ((((((((((((((((((((((DIANA))))))))))))))))))))))))))

All of our Angels will greet her over the Rainbow Bridge. She is flying free now, whole and healthy. rb_icon

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please smeone tell me how to cope wth this, i just can't, i can't.
 
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Diana, you don't cope with it today. you scream today, you cry, you curl up in a little ball, you talk outloud to yourself, you look at pictures, you remember all the great times and you cry some more and you tell us those stories as you need to. it will hurt like hell but you really do need to do that. this is part of the natural grieving process. and i'm sure everyone here will be there to help you thru it.

this doesn't even sound like you got to make the decision for her and it is those that can hurt so horribly bad. that happened to me with my Gizmo several years ago and after pulling myself together enough to actually let go of the vet and get myself out of the clinic, i came back to work, grabbed the phone and sat right down in the dirty mess here at work on the floor and called my mommy and cried my eyes out. she knew as soon as she heard my voice that i was in horrible pain and she was just there for me and let me cry and cry and cry. is there anyone you can do the same with perhaps?

((((((((((((((Diana)))))))))))))))))
 
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Wrapping you in cyber hugs (((((Diana)))) I know your heart is breaking..... Sending lots of prayers to help ease your grief.

Fly free sweet Sophie......together with Tom once again.
 
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Diana, no words of wisdom to help you through this. All we can do is cry, and then cry some more. It is the only release from the deep pain in your heart.

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Oh God Diana no no noooo this just cant beeeee. All the words in the world...God I'm just so sorry.
Sweet little Sophie, you no longer struggle but your mom needs your spirit as she takes on the pain of loss. I'm rambling I'm...
j.
 
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Oh Diana, I'm so sorry to hear this. What a shock. I was so hoping Sophie would have her surgery and be back home with you for many more years.

I'm sure Tom is happy to be with his sister again but I know they are both sad at having to leave you.

Sending many prayers for comfort and peace.
 
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Deep sigh. Diana, I'm so very, very sorry. These first days and weeks are going to be tough. The shock of losing them can be jolting, so do what you must to get by. Cry, call a friend, take a walk, write a tribute, whatever. Just know that you're not alone. My thoughts will be with you in the coming days...again, I'm so very sorry.
 
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(((((((Diana)))))) I am so privileged to have met her, and played with her and her ribbon and been able to know the both of you together.
I am so so sorry...this is awful. She was a special little kitten face and her love is with you still.

My heart goes out to you today and am sending love and strength.

Kimmee
 
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Cindy hit the nail on the head. It's just an awful time and we have to go through it to be able to cope, eventually. When Calliope had to go, I just kept telling myself that in spite of the horrible pain I was feeling, I'd go through it all again because the joy I got from having her in my life was so worth it. I also kept picturing her romping around and being free from pain and health problems. I tried not to focus on what happened to cause her to leave. I still get pain thinking about it, but I can deal with it, better, as time has passed.

I wish we could make the pain go away, but when we love so much, the pain is part of the process. I thought about that, too. In an odd way, it made me feel better because the fact that I was so upset validated how much I loved Calliope and with that much pain, I know how strong my love was and that she felt it. I probably don't make much sense, but maybe you can unscramble my thoughts, somehow.

(((((((Diana))))))
 
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NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OH Diana!
I don't know what to do to help you.

Sophie was greatly loved.

May all the Angels comfort you...

Maryjo
 
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I am so very sorry for your loss.
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Oh no, Diana, I'm so sorry. Please know there are many people thinking of you.

Fly free sweet Sophie!

Hugs,
Pam
 
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Oh, no, I'm so sorry, Diana. In time... may your memories give you comfort and make you smile...
 
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((Diana))Oh my goodness, I am so very sorry for the loss of your swet Sophie. Please know that so many of us are sharing your grief with you. It is so evident how much you loved her and that is why it is so much to bare. Take your time to work through your feelings, however long that may take. Again, I am so very sorry.
 
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Diana, I am so sorry for your loss. Sophie is free and playing with Tom. She'll send you a sign. Just keep a watchful eye out.

Peace, Diana.

Claudia
 
(((((Diana)))))) I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet Sophie. Fly free dear Sophie!

Sharing your tears,

Mel
 
Diana, I know the hurt, and I'm so sorry. Sophie willl always be with you - we're sending you our blessings and strength. Hugs!
 
((((( Diana )))))))

so sorry for the loss of your Sophie .

I looked through the album of her and Tom. what wonderful kitties. I especially loved the picture of them running through the snow together. I am sure they are together again now, watching over you .

Peace sweet Sophie rb_icon
 
I did email you, but reading the responses here................all I can add is what has been said so truly, that you must just cry and grieve, and not think of "coping' just yet.
Yes, those two much much loved kitties are together again, completely free of pain and happy - try and think of their happy reunion, because you did feel bad at Sophie's loss of Tom, and now that little sadness is cancelled out.
Whatever little glimmers of happy memories you can snatch hold of will help you a bit in the days ahead, but they will be dreadful days, as we all know too well.
Live and endure one minute at a time, don't even think of a long future without her, or HOW you will cope. But you will cope. You coped with losing Tom, and even though you still had Sophie, SHE didn't have her brother. But she has now.
 
Oh Diana I am so very very sorry. I know this was such a shock for you and that your heart is broken. I so wish I could take some of the pain away for you. I know that isn't possible. Please know though that there are so many people all over the world thinking of you right now and sending you strength to get through this. You will get through this.
 
I'm sorry - I know how tough is it to lose a wonderful pet. I hope in time you can think only about what a great cat she was and that she KNEW she was loved.
 
oh, Diana- i am so terribly sorry... there are no words...i lost my my soulmate of 17 yrs in january, and still dont know what to say to you.

we will hold you in our hearts-

celi & binks
 
((Diana)) I'm so sorry to see this post - I'm just seeing it and am so sorry. We try so hard and love them so much and sometimes it just can't be helped - but it's so difficult to let them go.

It does hurt and I'm so sorry that you're having to go through this. My heart goes out to you.

I'm sending many healing and comforting prayers your way - hoping that the wonderful love and memories you shared with your sweet Sophie will comfort you in the time to come and hopefully begin to fill the hole in your heart and life that her leaving has left.

Fly free, sweet Sophie -

Emmy & Dude (& Mittsi too)
 
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