Lu thanks - EPID I guess too (Every Person is different) I go for the rewarding of good behavior training more than the punishment thing but I hear ya - what works works! You hit the nail right on the head - Robbie LOVES to play in water - sits on the side of the tub while I shower etc. I did try the spray bottle with Roxie when she was a kitten - only for scratching at the furniture which she loves to do - and it was hysterical she thought it was a game (she also loves water they are Maine Coons what can I say) - so I got the NO SCRATCH stuff and if I remember to keep spraying it on the sofa etc. it works - just having the bottle under the sink I find does very little.... He knows the word NO really well and he stops if we say it loud and stern. Actually I'm doing some behavior modifying but on myself - I'm not GIVING IN - if he scratches at the lamp shade I say NO and he stops, he does it again again I say NO - I continued today to do that and after about 6 times he walked away, curled up by his food bowl and looked at me as if to say "I can't believe you aren't going to feed me to get me to stop" AH HA!!! So if I change MY behavior maybe he will change his - once he sees it doesn't work...
Oh, BTW AMPS +5 223 - not bad but looking like 5.00 might just be where we are going to be needing to go... looking forward to +7 his typical NADIAR (sp?) to see how low he goes on the 4.5 although he did just get a 1/4 of a can FF - once his sister starts screaming for food too I figure there must be a legit reason to feed - she's not a food hoover at all - never been an oz. over weight, in perfect shape, almost 13 and looks 7 - except for a brief skin rash/compulsive licking thing when we got the dog she's been the most healthy, perfect cat I've ever owned or known. So if she's hungry... she gets a tad less food than Robbie as she's smaller but she's also MUCH more active (flies around the house, up the cat tree, on the bed, across the sofa) so not THAT much less and hers is full on gravey FF - the "good stuff". So they both just got a late lunch...