Protcting Our Kitties- In Memory of Tiga- 2nd Anniversary

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Barb and Tori

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Today marks the 2nd anniversary of the death of my civi Tiger (aka Tiga) through a terrible accident and I would like to retell his story so none of our other kitties will ever meet his fate. Please bear with me if you already know this story but I think it merits repeating. That night my diabetic kitty Tori was in hospital fighting for her life with a very severe case of Gastritis, Pancreatitis and Septicemia following being given Metacam for her Arthritis. She was so ill that she even vomited up part of her stomach lining. We almost lost her that night but we didn't. We lost Tiga instead.

Anyway I was exhausted. No excuse but it is what it is. I work night shift full time and also was looking after my grandbaby during the day most days. I had had less than 3 hours sleep that day and was sick with worry about Tori. I decided that I was going to take a nap before I went to work that night but I needed to dry my uniforms that were in the washer.

I remember right before I went downstairs Tiga as usual was getting into mischief. I swept him up into my arms and twirled him around and told him what a silly boy he was and that I loved him. Little did I realize that those would be the last words I would ever say to him. I didn't notice that he followed me downstairs. There were damp clothes in the dryer and I went to speak to my daughter about them leaving the door open. I couldn't have been gone more than 30 seconds but in that time Toga jumped in. I didn't look in like I always do. Instead I shut the door and started the dryer and ran upstairs to have my nap. I woke up to my daughter screaming. My baby was gone. He was only 3 1/2 years old. I will never forget the agony and felt holding him my arms and the scream that came from the depths of my being. I tried CPR on him but I knew it was too late.

I have told Tiga's story every few months since his death in hope that it will save someone else from going through what Tiga and I did. I never want another kitty Bean to experience the pain that I have over the last 2 years and I never want another kitty to die the way Tiga did. All it took was less than a minute of not being vigilant that's all it took.

Some people on the Board have told me that knowing Tiga's story has saved their kitty from a similar fate. Someone called Tiga "The Guardian Angel of our Kitties " on this Board. I choose to believe that this is true. I have to believe it or else the pain would be totally unbearable.

Today I finally that the strength to put Tiga's ashes in the urn I bought for him over a year ago. It is a kitty with wings sleeping on a rock. The inscription says Tiga Beloved GA.

I have a special favour to ask of all of you today. On this second anniversary of Tiga's passing please could each of you tell Tiga's story to at least one person who is owned by a kitty. Help Tiga save other kitties and help me keep his memory alive. Remember we always need to be super vigilant to protect our kitties. It can only take an instant and they may be gone.

Hold each of your kitties extra close tonight and give them all a kiss for me. They are all so precious.
 
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm sure it is painful to relive, but an important lesson for the rest of us. We've all been absent-minded. Hopefully no one else will have to suffer the loss that you endured. My kitties thank you, too.
 
(((Barb))) It is always difficult to read this story. I can only begin to imagine how incredibly painful it is or you to write it. I have never closed the dryer door without checking since I first read Tiger's story. It haunts me. I will never forget him.
 
What a horrible tragedy for you! Tears are streaming down my face reading this. I'm so so sorry for your loss. And how true that it only takes a second of not paying attention for something like this to happen. Thank you for sharing your story, thank you for reliving your pain yet again to help save other kitties.
 
Thank so much for sharing Tiga's story. I can only imagine the agony that you felt. I am so sorry, even two years later I still am. I will share this with all that I know. It bears repeating. It will save lives.
 
Oh Barb
I did not know this story and I sit here shedding tears for the pain you have gone through.
I am so sorry for you loss and heartbreak.
I will pass your story on.
Now I can tell my DH I am not that mad at him for stacking my dryer on top
of the washing machine, even though it is hard for me to reach.
Having a new kitten in the house requires me to be more dilligent than my 3 seniors.
 
(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((BARB))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Wrapping you in cyber hugs today. Tears many tears.. but thank you for sharing it so people will be more aware.
 
(((((((Barb)))))))))

Thank you so much for retelling Tiga's story, I can only imagine the pain that it must bring back up for you and reliving it must be pure agony. It makes me so happy that our laundry room is very small and that we keep the door to it closed so that the kitties can't have access to it. DH and I had actually been talking about when we get to the basement in our remodleing project that perhaps we would take out that room and just make it one big open space. Now after reading Tiga's story we have decided that for the safety of our furry babies it may get a facelift but it will stay just the way it is. It is small and cramped but at least it can be shut off from the rest of the house and there is no way for a kitty to slip in without us noticing.

It is definitely a story that I will pass on to everyone that I know that is owned by a kitty. It is a great reminder that we can't too comfortable in our daily routines, that we must remain forever vigilent to keep our babies safe.

Mel
 
Thank you for telling Tiga's story and warning others of the danger. I'm so sorry; it was a tragic accident. Cats are so notorious for jumping into open containers, and I will warn my pet owner friends of this danger. This isn't easy, and I admire you for doing this in memory of Tiga and getting out the warning. Hugs to you.
 
Thanks for sharing. Just wanted you to know that I do think of you and Tiga every time I use the dryer; I remember the first time you posted afterwards and was haunted by your story. Hope the fact that his memory is evoked again every time a dryer door opens is of comfort to you.; he has probably saved many kitties.
 
The dryer is like a magnet for Sophie. Every time I open it she runs to jump inside.

But I am vigilant. She gets hauled out of there immediately.

She gets in there even if the clothes are wet !
 
Dear Barb,
I think of you sooo often and of your precious Tiga! My dear Tang crawled in the dryer once without me realizing it - I too turned the dryer on but quickly realized something was wrong. I was lucky but it has taught me to always double check and often go around and count all my kitties if I'm not absolutely positive before starting the dryer.
All my love to you dear friend. Please take good care of yourself! You are a good mama - never forget that!
xxxxx
 
Because of your beloved Tiga... I cannot close the dryer without checking... I cannot forget the anguish in your initial post.... The pain that came through the screen and hit us all squarely in our hearts. The scream you described letting out, was let out by many that horrible day....

I'm praying... in fact I'm sure that St. Francis sent a tiny angel to float on air with him cuddled in his chubby angel arms... telling him how much he was loved, but that it was time for him to come home to Rainbow Bridge... This chubby little boy angel... then wisked Tiga's spirit away, and they began their campaign of saving all the worlds kitties from the dryer beast...

I know too, as Charlie does visit and share his friends from the bridges' anctics with me. He has told me about a little boy angel, with a twinkle in his eye, who is always with a sweet little one named Tiga... they run and Tiga pounces out of a catnip plant and races like the wind along the meadow chasing 'flutter-bys'...

Some how I know this Tiga is waiting for his mommy bean, and is so sad when he see's you crying... Smile my friend, as it is your smile that he always loved above all others....

Gentle hugs from me...
 
wow, how awful. i am so sorry for what you went through. i do check the dryer. for some reason my cats don't like to do in there. i'm really sorry for your loss. thx for posting that.
 
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