Hi, Jill. A warm welcome to you and your kitty.
First up, have some of these:





We completely understand how lost, scared and overwhelmed you are feeling right now. I was just the same when my Saoirse was first diagnosed and I was so grateful I found FDMB; it's a great place to get help and support and to learn how to keep your kitty safe during insulin treatment.
Ignore your vet!

Your research is correct; it is
much safer to home test your kitty - and it will give you far greater peace of mind. We can help you learn how to test straight away. Here are some links to get you started:
Home testing links and tips (with tutorial video)
Testing and injecting tips (with helpful diagram of testing 'sweet spot' on the ear)
Testing for ketones (add urine ketone test strips to your shopping list, e.g. Keto-diastix)
How to treat hypos (print this out, read it through and keep it somewhere easy to lay hands on if you should need it in a hurry)
Hypo toolkit (read this before going shopping for supplies)
Can you let us know which country you're in so that we can recommend a glucometer for you? Also, please let us know which insulin your vet has prescribed and what food your kitty is eating. (What's your kitty's name?)
You
can do this, Jill, and you're not alone; we'll do all we can to help you both.
Mogs
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