Yes, I think almost all of us have had vets that don't know how to treat feline diabetes. There is a LOT to learn about it, and vets have to know some of everything for every kind of animal they treat, so they don't becomes specialists in what is a very complex disease. Feline diabetes is all we do around here, so most of us, even though we are not experts, have "seen" more diabetic cats than any vet ever will. That's why I rely so much on the expertise in the forum. My vet is a kind, wonderful person, and I'm so glad that he takes care of my kitties in other things, but this is where I look for knowledge and wisdom about treating diabetes (and related issues).
Please don't feel like you need to limit your cat to twice/day feeding. You and your kitty will both just be unhappy, plus depending on your cat, it may make her numbers worse. If my kitty doesn't eat regularly, his numbers go much higher. If he snacks throughout the cycle, he stays pretty flat. Every cat has their own patterns, and the data will help you learn Amber's, but I think most cats do better with at least a few snacks.
The data will pretty quickly show if your kitty's numbers are somogyi, or just that she is a high dose kitty, and as Kris mentioned, you may also consider getting the testing done to solve the mystery once and for all. Great job setting up a spreadsheet by the way. In the top right corner, there is a blue button that says "share" click on that, make sure it's set to "anyone with a link can view" and then we should be able to see it.