Breathe, breathe. I know we all say it gets easier, but REALLY, it does!
Yes, we might have someone who lives nearby. What is your city and state?
Did you sure warm up the ear? Most newbies have to have warm ears to get their blood circulating.
Are you sure you are poking in the right place? Put a flashlight up next to his ear. See the vein that runs down the edge of the ear? You are aiming for the capillaries that run off that vein toward the edge of the ear.
Where to poke When you see the place you want to poke, put a small smear of vaseline there. It will not only help you find the right spot, but the vaseline will help the blood bead up.
What size lancets are you using? New diabetics sometimes need the fatter lancet - 25 to 26 gauge
Do you have something behind the ear to poke against? The rice sack works as does folded up kleenix. We liked a small makeup sponge.
Yes, it will be much better if you can do the blood tests at home. Cheaper and more accurate. No matter how nice the vet is, the kitty can be stressed with strange noises and smells. And stress raises bg levels.
Don't be discouraged. Very few people get it on the first few tries. We poked poor Oliver for an entire weekend before we got a drop.