beccalecca
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I guess I will go ahead and introduce me and my cat. My name is Becca and my cat is Star. Star came to us from a friend, who rescued a litter of kittens and their momma from underneath a porch. She got these feral kitties used to being around people, and then found homes for them one by one. The two that took the longest to get comfortable with people, she grew quite attached to. She kept one and gave us the other. We called her Star. She's been with us for 6 and a half of her approximate 7 years of life. She has moved with us across the country twice. This week our vet informed us that she has diabetes. And we aren't sure what to think of that.
Our concerns? The expense and the time commitment are highest on the list. We worry that we will never be able to travel again, which makes it hard because we have two young children who like to see their grandparents and cousins in other states (we could hardly expect our friends to fulfill her needs and I expect a kennel would make expensive travel that much more out of our reach). We worry that my husband has been drastically underemployed since he graduated two years ago and I only work part-time. In a much too expensive area of the US. A vet bill of almost $300 just to get her diagnosed? And the vets we've seen so far have all been sort of like car mechanics -- whatever they estimate before we come in is a far cry from what they bill us when all is said and done.
In the meantime we bought some cans of food. Up until now we have been feeding her dry food. She weighs 14 pounds (her daddy was a huge tomcat, she's got a large frame)--we used to give her 3/4-1 cup of dry food, always given to her around our dinnertime in one serving. She would graze on it until she finished the next day. How much wet food does that mean she needs? And how do we get her to leave us alone in the night when she wants more food? Seriously, our 18-month old isn't sleeping through the night, and now the cat is waking me up too! I guess we'll have to go see our vet's insulin demo, but I'm not sure how much $$$ that will run. He wants to see a lot of her over the next 8 weeks. Again, more $$$. And quotes aren't really that helpful.
And so we waffle. Can we really commit to helping Star now? What choice do we have? How long can we do this? Finding a home more capable of helping her seems unlikely. We have a hard time not doing anything. But how can we justify going into debt for our cat (much as we love her)? What choice do we have?
Our concerns? The expense and the time commitment are highest on the list. We worry that we will never be able to travel again, which makes it hard because we have two young children who like to see their grandparents and cousins in other states (we could hardly expect our friends to fulfill her needs and I expect a kennel would make expensive travel that much more out of our reach). We worry that my husband has been drastically underemployed since he graduated two years ago and I only work part-time. In a much too expensive area of the US. A vet bill of almost $300 just to get her diagnosed? And the vets we've seen so far have all been sort of like car mechanics -- whatever they estimate before we come in is a far cry from what they bill us when all is said and done.
In the meantime we bought some cans of food. Up until now we have been feeding her dry food. She weighs 14 pounds (her daddy was a huge tomcat, she's got a large frame)--we used to give her 3/4-1 cup of dry food, always given to her around our dinnertime in one serving. She would graze on it until she finished the next day. How much wet food does that mean she needs? And how do we get her to leave us alone in the night when she wants more food? Seriously, our 18-month old isn't sleeping through the night, and now the cat is waking me up too! I guess we'll have to go see our vet's insulin demo, but I'm not sure how much $$$ that will run. He wants to see a lot of her over the next 8 weeks. Again, more $$$. And quotes aren't really that helpful.
And so we waffle. Can we really commit to helping Star now? What choice do we have? How long can we do this? Finding a home more capable of helping her seems unlikely. We have a hard time not doing anything. But how can we justify going into debt for our cat (much as we love her)? What choice do we have?