tabascocat2
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So, my Mom passed away recently, and I took in her 13-year-old cat. He is FINE outwardly. He was diagnosed with diabetes about a year ago, but was never treated, because my Mom couldn't possibly do it (he is very very big), and we couldn't go there every day or cart him around from her home. Other than some neuropathy in his back end (walking on his hocks), he has had no symptoms that I can decipher. That symptom came and went over the past year, when he lived with my Mom. Now that I have him, he doesn't have that symptom, either. He eats, drinks, pees, and poops normally. He does not vomit, he plays, he is shiny and sleek, happy as a clam. I have a 5 lb cat with kidney failure, and she drinks and pees a good third more than he does!
Had him retested, and he is still diabetic. Still asymptomatic. I am trying to work with his "cure", but he is not really MY cat, you know? He and I have a good relationship, but not the long-time trust that I have with my existing cat of 17 years. He is catching on to the two injections every day, the visits to the vet in he carrier, etc. He is hiding from me, and now that he is being treated, he is very unhappy. It is costing a lot of money--already over $1000. The only thing he really likes about the whole thing is the food, which he loves, much better than the food he was used to eating--Nature's Balance--which he has completely abandoned in favor of the diabetes prescription diet.
Right now, he is at the vet for a few days so they can monitor his glucose--the other option was for me to get him and and out of the carrier every day this week, carting him back and forth while trying to get to and from work every day. That was not going to work, but the cost of keeping him there is exorbitant. And the vet then wants me to take him there once a week for an unspecified period of time.
It won't be long before he will not come near me at all. He is far too big for me to manage if he becomes really uncooperative--he would completely fill the seat of the average lawn chair. Does that provide a visual? He is not quite bob cat size, but close. He is about the size of a small beagle and very fat, too, on top of that.
I'm not sure this is manageable, and I feel badly, but also completely overwhelmed. It is not making a lot of sense to me, to go through all of this. Any ideas?
Had him retested, and he is still diabetic. Still asymptomatic. I am trying to work with his "cure", but he is not really MY cat, you know? He and I have a good relationship, but not the long-time trust that I have with my existing cat of 17 years. He is catching on to the two injections every day, the visits to the vet in he carrier, etc. He is hiding from me, and now that he is being treated, he is very unhappy. It is costing a lot of money--already over $1000. The only thing he really likes about the whole thing is the food, which he loves, much better than the food he was used to eating--Nature's Balance--which he has completely abandoned in favor of the diabetes prescription diet.
Right now, he is at the vet for a few days so they can monitor his glucose--the other option was for me to get him and and out of the carrier every day this week, carting him back and forth while trying to get to and from work every day. That was not going to work, but the cost of keeping him there is exorbitant. And the vet then wants me to take him there once a week for an unspecified period of time.
It won't be long before he will not come near me at all. He is far too big for me to manage if he becomes really uncooperative--he would completely fill the seat of the average lawn chair. Does that provide a visual? He is not quite bob cat size, but close. He is about the size of a small beagle and very fat, too, on top of that.
I'm not sure this is manageable, and I feel badly, but also completely overwhelmed. It is not making a lot of sense to me, to go through all of this. Any ideas?