Hi Carolyn! Welcome to you and Buster. You are absolutely correct, with time and knowledge all will be well -- and it sounds like you are off to a great start! Unfortunately, not all vets are knowledgeable about the value of home blood glucose testing or feline diabetes in general. My first vet was not supportive and kept recommending day-long "curves" done at his office as the only way to regulate my cat. He could not teach me how to home test Ninja as he had never done it himself; so with the recommendation of someone from this board I found a new vet in my area. Is the new vet perfect? No, but she is willing to work with me and learn -- rather than dictate treatment. Let us know how it goes after your vet visit. PS: here are two fantastic articles from veterinarian Dr. Lisa Pierson (a feline diabetic guru) about feline nutrition and what to feed your diabetic cat. The short answer is canned or wet low-carbohydrate food. Also note that dry food in general is bad for diabetic cats (spikes their blood sugar) and is not recommended, nor is "prescription" food. Best of luck!!!
http://www.catinfo.org/
http://www.catinfo.org/?link=felinediabetes
Here is an excerpt from Dr. Lisa's article on diabetes (referenced above):
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"Many cats that are in a diabetic state no longer need any insulin when they are finally fed an appropriate low-carbohydrate diet. Others will always need some insulin but the amount necessary to maintain proper blood glucose levels is nearly always significantly reduced once the patient is on a low carbohydrate diet.
Please re-read the previous two paragraphs carefully. If you change your diabetic cat's diet to one with lower carbohydrates, he will, in all probability, IMMEDIATELY (not days or weeks later) require a reduction in his insulin dosage. He may also immediately go into 'remission' and not need any insulin at all.
If this warning is ignored, you may very well end up with a cat in a hypoglycemic crisis (dangerously low blood sugar) which can result in death, or brain damage.
If you take only one point away from this page, it needs to be the understanding that if you stop pouring carbs into your cat by switching to a low-carb canned food diet (or even a dry food diet with lower carbs than you have been feeding), you MUST be aware of the probable immediate and significant impact on your cat's insulin needs."
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