Nancy, stage 1 is not that bad--was he diagnosed based off his bloodwork? Here's a great site that explains the different stages:
http://www.felinecrf.org/how_bad_is_it.htm Most cats have some loss of kidney function as they age--the good news is that the progression of kidney disease can be halted with the right diet. My Gabby was diagnosed with borderline stage1/stage 2 kidney disease, and in the 2 1/2 years I had left with her her kidney values did not change at ALL with the kidney-friendly diet I had her on. She passed away from cancer, completely unrelated to the kidney disease. If it weren't for the cancer, I would have had more years left with her.
You simply need a low carb, low phosphorus canned food, preferably without byproducts (higher quality protein sources are easier on the kidneys). Keeping your cat as hydrated as possible is key to managing the disease, along with low phosphorus foods. Mixing water in with the canned food is one good way to help with hydration.
Here's an updated food list with the values for several premium foods:
https://docs.google.com/leaf?id=0B8...MzhkYTkxOGM4NThk&sort=name&layout=list&num=50. You're looking for something with less than 10% carbs and less than 250 mg/kcal of phosphorus. The foods I would suggest are Merrick's Before Grain Beef, Merrick's Before Grain Turkey, Merricks' Cowboy Cookout, Merrick's Surf & Turf, Wellness Turkey, EVO 95% Chicken & Turkey, and Blue Wilderness Duck.
If those are out of your price range, the next best thing to feed are the low carb Friskie's Special Diet flavors. These are Turkey & Giblets and Salmon Dinner--make sure they are the ones that say "special diet" on the can, though. PetSmart carries them, and some grocery stores. Here is an updated list of just the phosphorus values for many commercial foods. They can be cross referenced with Binky's chart for carb values if there's something on there that you want to feed. On this chart, you're looking for something that is less than 1% phosphorus (these values are on a dry matter basis, not mg/kcal):
http://www.felinecrf.org/canned_food_usa.htm
When cats do get to a later stage in the disease, they tend to get pickier with food and may not eat the low phosphorus foods you want them to. If that's the case you can get a phosphorus binder to help mange--the key is keeping the cat eating, no matter what.
Here's a link to Tanya's CRF page--it has a ton of info.
http://www.felinecrf.org/index.htm
When Gabby was diagnosed I thought it was the end for her, and I was so upset. Turns out things weren't as bad as I thought once I did some reading on the subject! I hope this is the case for you, too.