maddyjoann
Member Since 2021
I need some help... My mom helps me care for my sugar baby, and she's been just as involved as me in his entire diagnosis. He's 15, previously treated for hyperthyroidism last year but was always a healthy cat before that. Lately, we've been getting in disagreements about whether or not he's suffering too much and if it's time to make that choice... I don't think we're there yet and we still need to give him more of a chance, as it's only been 4 months. But mom thinks it may almost be time because we aren't seeing very good results and his day to day is just so hard to watch. I can see he's definitely not the cat he used to be and he is struggling. He drinks as much as a diabetic cat should, he usually eats okay but there are some days were we have to try to stimulate his appetite. He sleeps almost all day, never wants to play or do anything. Interacts with the family and our dog just as much as he used to, but you can tell he's grumpy and frustrated. He doesn't feel good and he HATES his Freestyle Libre sensor. His bathroom habits are starting to change. He doesn't cover his waste in the litter box anymore and earlier this week, he peed on the dog bed, and he hasn't done that in a long time (No he doesn't have a UTI, we immediately tested for it next day). He meows and gets mad/snippy for insulin time and definitely is resistant to home testing. His neuropathy is so bad that he thumps and slides around when he tries to walk, so we usually have to carry him from one place to another. I want to keep pushing for him because I know he could still have a chance to feel better, but when do we stop? When have we put him through enough? At what point is it more for my benefit than his own? I don't want him to go before it's truly time, but I'm also terrified of waiting too long and keeping him in pain, and the potential of other ailments that could come up. It's so hard to watch him suffer, but I don't want to keep him going just out of my own selfishness.
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