Hi Rob,
I don't know what info you have been given in the past or read on your own from this site, but a couple things are very important:
1.Food needs to be low carb wet foods. Many cats are diet controlled and do not need insulin, so food matters alot.
Binky’s Food Lists
Feeding Your Cat: Know The Basics of Feline Nutrition
2. Home testing is critical because you need to track where Missy's numbers are before you give insulin. There may come a day when she no longer needs insulin or needs less and without home testing, you would not know.
Many will give you tips on how to approach the testing, so if you relax, and offer treats at test time, you may have a better go of it.
Testing on cat’s ear
List of Hypo symptoms
How to treat HYPOS – They can kill! Print this out!
Jojo’s HYPO TOOLKIT
You say she comes to you for shots - that should tell you right there that the shots make her feel much better after.
For the testing, are you doing freehand or using the lancet device. I prefer the device as it's quicker and the depth of the poke can be adjusted, but many prefer freehand.
In the beginning, it may seem foreign and like an annoyance. Poke yourself so you see how it feels and make adjustments so that you still get blood but it's not as deep.
The ears 'learn' to bleed, and will be a non event in no time. My two sleep through the pokes.
Below are the links with info about the insulin you are using:
Tight Regulation Protocol
LANTUS & LEVEMIR – INSULIN DEPOT –AKA- STORAGE SHED
Lantus&Levemir – Data Ready to Shoot Low Numbers
I am sure you are finding people asking the same questions over and over, so it would be helpful if you set up a profile with the info, and also keep track of your test results in a google spreadsheet.
It's alot of info to start but it gets easy quickly.
There are many people here who can help you, and if you post over in the Lantus group, I am sure you will get responses from others with weird work schedules.
Just make your subject something like Need help with shot schedule for non-12/12 work hours.
Or whatever you think will be eye catching.