Hello Karen, and welcome to you both.
Now
breathe.
I'm sorry to hear that Krinkle has pancreatitis and diabetes. My girl was simiarly diagnosed just over a year ago.
I have a little bit of an idea of how upsetting, stressful and overwhelming things are right now, as do most of the members here - we've pretty much all been where you are right now. Good news is that you've found a terrific place to learn how to help Krinkle get better. Diabetes is manageable, and so is pancreatitis. There are many of us here who have cats with both conditions.
Here, you can learn more about diabetes and pancreatitis. We can help you learn to home test blood glucose, track trends, find diabetic-friendly foods, and a whole lot more besides.
There is a lot of great information on the Feline Health FAQs board to get you started. Also, here are the
IDEXX treatment guidelines for pancreatitis. I found the latter very useful when trying to get the right treatments in place for Saoirse.
Tip: When Krinkle is ready to come home, try to have a stock of what he's eating OK at the vets so that you can keep a bit of continuity going. (Eating is usually the tricky part of managing pancreatitis.) Adding a little water to Krinkle's meals (assuming you're feeding him a wet food) will help him to keep hydrated in the event that he may not want to drink water on its own. Also, it is a really good idea to make sure the vets send you home with a supply of anti-nausea medication (e.g. ondansetron) and an appetite stimulant (e.g. cyproheptadine) and a pain reliever should Krinkle need that (buprenophrine). It makes a world of difference having these meds to hand - you can react quickly to changes in appetite or nausea and that makes kitty more comfortable and management much easier. Also, double-check whether they have given Krinkle any B12 and if they haven't already done so I'd recommend that you ask them to give him a dose before bringing him home (and ideally get once-a-week B12 injections for the next few weeks - it really makes a difference).
I'm glad to hear that your vet is proposing a long-acting insulin. With pancreatitis, feeding smaller regular meals helps a lot. Would it be very disruptive to keep Krinkle isolated while he's recovering? I ask because the way to manage the frequent feeds is to get a timed feeder such as the Petsafe 5. Saoirse had a major pancreatitis flare last year and I could not have managed her care without automatic feeders. As you're both working full time away from home, I'd definitely recommend checking them out. They are an absolute godsend.
I'm going to stop here for now. I'm sure you already feel overwhelmed enough without me adding to it.
Be sure to post updates to let us know how Krinkle's progressing.

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