FurBabiesMama
Member Since 2017
Hi. Tomorrow will be two weeks since my Mia was diagnosed. I am exhausted over worrying about her and my other baby, Willow (15 yrs old), and the primary cause of it is the food situation. They were used to free feeding on dry food. They eat a few bites then maybe a few hours later eat a few more, and so on throughout the day and night. They also like to eat together - one will go get the other, they will walk to the food together and put their little heads in there side-by-side. (Very precious!) So, right from the start I was concerned about disrupting things. For one thing, I do not want to risk causing my older cat any health issues due to messing with her food and her no longer eating enough, or having her turn out to be allergic to something. (I know she is allergic to turkey, and she also has the sneezing kind of allergies to things in the air.)
Initially, the vet gave me Hill's dry m/d and told me to feed them twice a day. I asked about wet food (not even sure what prompted me to since I never fed them wet before, and I had not yet researched it) so she also gave me two cans of m/d wet and said I could use either. The first evening, I gave them the dry food. Then I started my research and decided to go with the wet. I went with two set feeding times at 6am and 6pm. I started with the two cans of Hill's m/d that the vet gave me, then I started purchasing various other kinds of wet food from a list I made from the one on catinfo.org. (All of the ones I have gotten are under 5% carbs.) Right away, they started crying at about 4am wanting food, and again at mid-day. After about three days of that, I decided that they needed food available to them at all times. So, I started leaving wet food out for them, but they just did not want it and were not eating enough, so I started adding some of the dry at the set feeding times. I would add it in the wet hoping that they would end up eating more of the wet, too. I would start out feeding them in separate places until I was sure Mia has eaten enough to have her shot, then I would consolidate the food and let them eat together. Still, they were just not eating enough. I thought I would find some foods that they really liked and could settle into buying those, but no. Even if I try something, and they seem to love it the first time, they might not even lick it the second time. I have been throwing out a ridiculous amount of wet foot.
I reached the conclusion that 1) I am going to let them have food available 24/7 (in addition to the two set feeding times for the shots) and 2) dry food is going to continue to be part of their diet (I know, I know.. but the ideal is just not working in this reality). So, I ordered Young Again Zero Mature to have available for them all the time while I continue to give them wet food for the two meal times. (Though Young Again's instructions say to feed only their food.) Now, though, they are eating even less of the wet food. I do not know whether that is a big deal since they seem to be eating an appropriate amount of the dry, but it concerns me since wet is supposed to be the best way to go.
Mia's first follow up with the vet is tomorrow morning. The vet called me yesterday, and I mentioned the food challenges and what I am doing. She called me back today and told me she did research and spoke with the other three vets there, and they all agree that they do NOT recommend feeding Young Again. Her reason was that it has not gone through clinical trials and is not vet-backed. They want me to change to free feeding the Hill's dry m/d (18% carbs, guys.. 18%!!!) and to give just a couple of bites of the Hill's wet m/d wet (I think it is 13%!) or another wet food of my choice for shot time. She said that is not ideal and may lessen Mia's likelihood of going into remission, but it is the recommendation if the set meal time feeding only will not work for us.
I am tired. I am worried. I am confused. I do not know what sources to trust. I am sorry this got so very very long and bless anyone who actually reads it all. I do not even know what I expect from you other than maybe just moral support.
Initially, the vet gave me Hill's dry m/d and told me to feed them twice a day. I asked about wet food (not even sure what prompted me to since I never fed them wet before, and I had not yet researched it) so she also gave me two cans of m/d wet and said I could use either. The first evening, I gave them the dry food. Then I started my research and decided to go with the wet. I went with two set feeding times at 6am and 6pm. I started with the two cans of Hill's m/d that the vet gave me, then I started purchasing various other kinds of wet food from a list I made from the one on catinfo.org. (All of the ones I have gotten are under 5% carbs.) Right away, they started crying at about 4am wanting food, and again at mid-day. After about three days of that, I decided that they needed food available to them at all times. So, I started leaving wet food out for them, but they just did not want it and were not eating enough, so I started adding some of the dry at the set feeding times. I would add it in the wet hoping that they would end up eating more of the wet, too. I would start out feeding them in separate places until I was sure Mia has eaten enough to have her shot, then I would consolidate the food and let them eat together. Still, they were just not eating enough. I thought I would find some foods that they really liked and could settle into buying those, but no. Even if I try something, and they seem to love it the first time, they might not even lick it the second time. I have been throwing out a ridiculous amount of wet foot.
I reached the conclusion that 1) I am going to let them have food available 24/7 (in addition to the two set feeding times for the shots) and 2) dry food is going to continue to be part of their diet (I know, I know.. but the ideal is just not working in this reality). So, I ordered Young Again Zero Mature to have available for them all the time while I continue to give them wet food for the two meal times. (Though Young Again's instructions say to feed only their food.) Now, though, they are eating even less of the wet food. I do not know whether that is a big deal since they seem to be eating an appropriate amount of the dry, but it concerns me since wet is supposed to be the best way to go.
Mia's first follow up with the vet is tomorrow morning. The vet called me yesterday, and I mentioned the food challenges and what I am doing. She called me back today and told me she did research and spoke with the other three vets there, and they all agree that they do NOT recommend feeding Young Again. Her reason was that it has not gone through clinical trials and is not vet-backed. They want me to change to free feeding the Hill's dry m/d (18% carbs, guys.. 18%!!!) and to give just a couple of bites of the Hill's wet m/d wet (I think it is 13%!) or another wet food of my choice for shot time. She said that is not ideal and may lessen Mia's likelihood of going into remission, but it is the recommendation if the set meal time feeding only will not work for us.
I am tired. I am worried. I am confused. I do not know what sources to trust. I am sorry this got so very very long and bless anyone who actually reads it all. I do not even know what I expect from you other than maybe just moral support.
