I used to use paws till I got better with ears, hubby still does use paws
Are you making sure the ear is warm & massaging it? This will make it easier to see & poke. I used a small sock filled with rice & warmed only a few seconds in the microwave. Not too hot. Hold it on the ear to warm. A very small amount of Vaseline on the outer tip will also help the blood bead up. I had trouble in the beginning but the capillaries will grow & I don’t need to do all this now. Hope this helps some!
are you saying to apply vaseline there anyway?