Hello, I will try to make a long story short but I could really REALLY use some advice/suggestions/thoughts/comments.
I took over my cat from my aunt 5-6 years ago. He is now 17 years old. He always ate dry food and was always a puker. when I brought him in my he vet said he was diabetic. He was in the 500’s. At the time I changed his diet to the expensive diabetic food they recommended and insulin. I was terrible at giving insulin. My ex was the one that could do it. Needless to say when I brought him in for a sugar check they said when you get him home give him a treat I said why, they said he is very low (like 50-60). On the way home he didn’t move. That freaked me out. So I said the hell with that I will try diet alone. I found this group and started feeding him wet food (fancy feast pate). 2 years ago this new vet I took him to left a voicemail (I still have it). Good news, he is not diabetic anymore (remission) his numbers are 145 and looking good. Whatever you are doing is working so keep it up. I’m a little concerned with his kidney numbers but we will keep an eye on it. He might be starting to get cataracts probably due to his age. I’m thinking ok not too bad! Specially because they told me to buy the prescription food from them and didn’t believe in at home testing. Well Last year I bring him in. She was concerned about thyroid, diabetes or kidneys. She called and said his diabetes is back (don’t remember her mentioning kidneys). His numbers were like 240. I figured he gets worked up going into the car let alone vets and I have been feeding him some dry food as a snack, I’ll look into dry food with low carbs and see if that works. I found the young again zero and thought great, this should all work. Mostly wet food FF pate and snack young again.
A couple months ago (2-3 months) I noticed him always hungry, throwing up and maybe losing weight. My mom recently was like yea let’s bring him in. I bring him back in, tell them what’s going on and what I’m feeding shim. Right away that is not what the doctor recommended, there is so dual food for this. Can’t believe everything you read online. They weigh him and he lost 1.5 since last year. The doc checks him over and comes in, she proceeds to berate me. He has lost weight, he feels bony, you didn’t do what I suggested, you let this go on too long and he is starving to death. Fancy feast only works if you have him insulin too. I have to advocate for him and his quality of life, I would suggest maybe putting him down. He has cataracts because of the diabetes going on so long, his kidneys might not be great cuz of the diabetes, because you let this go on for so long it is probably too late to reverse this. I will run some blood work and let you know what we find. It won’t be back till Wednesday because we are closed. Wow! I started crying and felt attacked. As if I didn’t put him remission or care or do my best. He is 17 years old and I love him. She did not consider I put him remission doing what I was doing, never did anything for his kidneys and just because I didn’t get the prescription food it’s all my fault. Not to mention she blamed everything on diabetes, yea he may have diabetes but his eye sight was already going, she said he was having kidney issues years ago, and he is an older cat. I don’t know what to do or think. Is he suffering? Should I start insulin? Is it time to let him go? I am a mess and feel horrible like everything is my fault. What do I do?
I took over my cat from my aunt 5-6 years ago. He is now 17 years old. He always ate dry food and was always a puker. when I brought him in my he vet said he was diabetic. He was in the 500’s. At the time I changed his diet to the expensive diabetic food they recommended and insulin. I was terrible at giving insulin. My ex was the one that could do it. Needless to say when I brought him in for a sugar check they said when you get him home give him a treat I said why, they said he is very low (like 50-60). On the way home he didn’t move. That freaked me out. So I said the hell with that I will try diet alone. I found this group and started feeding him wet food (fancy feast pate). 2 years ago this new vet I took him to left a voicemail (I still have it). Good news, he is not diabetic anymore (remission) his numbers are 145 and looking good. Whatever you are doing is working so keep it up. I’m a little concerned with his kidney numbers but we will keep an eye on it. He might be starting to get cataracts probably due to his age. I’m thinking ok not too bad! Specially because they told me to buy the prescription food from them and didn’t believe in at home testing. Well Last year I bring him in. She was concerned about thyroid, diabetes or kidneys. She called and said his diabetes is back (don’t remember her mentioning kidneys). His numbers were like 240. I figured he gets worked up going into the car let alone vets and I have been feeding him some dry food as a snack, I’ll look into dry food with low carbs and see if that works. I found the young again zero and thought great, this should all work. Mostly wet food FF pate and snack young again.
A couple months ago (2-3 months) I noticed him always hungry, throwing up and maybe losing weight. My mom recently was like yea let’s bring him in. I bring him back in, tell them what’s going on and what I’m feeding shim. Right away that is not what the doctor recommended, there is so dual food for this. Can’t believe everything you read online. They weigh him and he lost 1.5 since last year. The doc checks him over and comes in, she proceeds to berate me. He has lost weight, he feels bony, you didn’t do what I suggested, you let this go on too long and he is starving to death. Fancy feast only works if you have him insulin too. I have to advocate for him and his quality of life, I would suggest maybe putting him down. He has cataracts because of the diabetes going on so long, his kidneys might not be great cuz of the diabetes, because you let this go on for so long it is probably too late to reverse this. I will run some blood work and let you know what we find. It won’t be back till Wednesday because we are closed. Wow! I started crying and felt attacked. As if I didn’t put him remission or care or do my best. He is 17 years old and I love him. She did not consider I put him remission doing what I was doing, never did anything for his kidneys and just because I didn’t get the prescription food it’s all my fault. Not to mention she blamed everything on diabetes, yea he may have diabetes but his eye sight was already going, she said he was having kidney issues years ago, and he is an older cat. I don’t know what to do or think. Is he suffering? Should I start insulin? Is it time to let him go? I am a mess and feel horrible like everything is my fault. What do I do?
