a footnote to Sue's post...
There are a few cats who will always hate hometesting
Many cats have no issue with hometesting
Some cats love it and remind their humans when it is time
The ear has very few nerve endings, so do not compare the feel of the poke on your fingertip to what they will feel...it doesn't hurt them.
Some people have to restrain their cats. Me, on the otherhand, would not have been successful that way. So Squeak sits between my legs while I brush him and warm his ear and poke him.
Some people do not find lancet devices work. Others, like me, are fearful of freehanding and love their softclix pen.
Jen