PandorasMom
Member Since 2013
Hi everyone. I am new to the forum. My 9 year old cat Pandora (Panda for short) was diagnosed with diabetes on Friday. Needless to say, I am devastated.
I took my cat to the low-income vet last week for her annual check up and shots and to discuss some peculiar behaviors she has been displaying. Despite acting a bit odd, she didn't seem sick/lethargic until a couple days before taking her to the vet. She kept trying to jump into the sink, would refuse to drink her water from the dish, and her coat was suddenly a disaster, but I didn't think too much of it since she didn't actually seem sick. All of these issues really started when I went home to Texas for the month of August and Pandora was under my roommates' care, so I thought it was behavioral. She also lost weight, but she has a problem with getting bloated, so the weight loss really just seemed like she wasn't bloated. (I'm feeling defensive about her symptoms. Our new vet is making me feel awful for not getting her in sooner.)
To my horror, the veterinarian said he thought she had kidney disease or diabetes, and he referred me to another vet, Dr. J, since the low-income vet only provides basic services. Almost $500 later, we got a diagnosis of diabetes (and some antibiotics and fluids). Her blood sugar was over 300. Panda also has a 104 F fever that Dr. J can't seem to explain based on the blood work.
Dr. J, has quoted me around an additional $1,000 as an upfront cost to be able to start managing her diabetes, plus the cost of insulin and other supplies. I'm not exactly sure what that $1,000 entails; it sounded like it was the testing/blood work to initially figure out how much insulin she needs (including the glucose curve) and maybe doing the blood work again a couple weeks later. Plus more money for more blood work in a couple months. He sounds like a very knowledgeable vet, but he inundates you with so much extraneous information that it is hard to follow. Rather than explaining what is most likely to happen, he explains every single possible scenario that could ever transpire in every single possible situation ever. It's overwhelming.
I adore my cat, but I am a grad student living in Boston. I am a full time student, I have an unpaid internship 25-30 hours a week, and I'm writing my dissertation. I live on $600 a month. If I had the money, I would pay as much as I needed to in order to get the best care possible for Pandora. Unfortunately, there is no way I can afford to spend another $1,000. As I was trying to get an estimate from Dr J on how much it would cost to stabilize Panda and if there were any things I could do at home with a glucometer to save money he said "Well, if you put her down you wouldn't be the first one." Then he launched into this story about a rich client he had who put her diabetic cat down because she couldn't be bothered to deal with it. It kind of sounds to me like he is the one who doesn't want to deal with it.
I am completely willing to put forth the effort and lifestyle changes needed to manage diabetes, but I don't have that kind of money. I tried asking him about Panda's quality of life, and he basically said he couldn't make any guarantees because she has a strange presentation. He has never seen a diabetic cat who is under weight, which she is (6.6 pounds; should be 8 or 9). She has never been obese. He said she is fragile and frail and "very sick", and I feel like he is angling for me to just put her to sleep, although he hasn't actually advised me to do so. I can't even adequately write a sentence to convey how much I do NOT want to put Pandora to sleep. It's unthinkable. But I also can't let her go untreated.
On Sunday, an acquaintance told me about her diabetic cat who is now in remission. She used a glucometer and did the glucose curve at home by herself in order to figure out how much insulin to give her cat. From what I have read while researching feline diabetes, others have done the same thing. Dr. J didn't seem to be a fan of this approach though. I feel like my options with him are to either do it the expensive way or put Panda down.
I think that putting Panda to sleep without trying to do SOMETHING is ridiculous. Even if it isn't the ideal method, if it is possible to do a glucose curve myself and figure out the insulin dose with a means that I can afford, isn't that better than just giving up on her without trying? It's pretty messed up to have to put my cat down just because I can't afford fancy testing, and I'm not ok with that, especially if there is another option.
I feel like I should tell the vet that this is what I want to do and he can support me in this, provide guidance around the results I get, and advise me on a dose based on that or I can take Panda's records somewhere else where they will support me in this process. From what I have read and heard, this sounds like a possibility. Am I way off track here? Am I missing something or being unrealistic? I don't really know what else to do.
Sorry this was so long. I appreciate any advice you can give me.
I took my cat to the low-income vet last week for her annual check up and shots and to discuss some peculiar behaviors she has been displaying. Despite acting a bit odd, she didn't seem sick/lethargic until a couple days before taking her to the vet. She kept trying to jump into the sink, would refuse to drink her water from the dish, and her coat was suddenly a disaster, but I didn't think too much of it since she didn't actually seem sick. All of these issues really started when I went home to Texas for the month of August and Pandora was under my roommates' care, so I thought it was behavioral. She also lost weight, but she has a problem with getting bloated, so the weight loss really just seemed like she wasn't bloated. (I'm feeling defensive about her symptoms. Our new vet is making me feel awful for not getting her in sooner.)
To my horror, the veterinarian said he thought she had kidney disease or diabetes, and he referred me to another vet, Dr. J, since the low-income vet only provides basic services. Almost $500 later, we got a diagnosis of diabetes (and some antibiotics and fluids). Her blood sugar was over 300. Panda also has a 104 F fever that Dr. J can't seem to explain based on the blood work.
Dr. J, has quoted me around an additional $1,000 as an upfront cost to be able to start managing her diabetes, plus the cost of insulin and other supplies. I'm not exactly sure what that $1,000 entails; it sounded like it was the testing/blood work to initially figure out how much insulin she needs (including the glucose curve) and maybe doing the blood work again a couple weeks later. Plus more money for more blood work in a couple months. He sounds like a very knowledgeable vet, but he inundates you with so much extraneous information that it is hard to follow. Rather than explaining what is most likely to happen, he explains every single possible scenario that could ever transpire in every single possible situation ever. It's overwhelming.
I adore my cat, but I am a grad student living in Boston. I am a full time student, I have an unpaid internship 25-30 hours a week, and I'm writing my dissertation. I live on $600 a month. If I had the money, I would pay as much as I needed to in order to get the best care possible for Pandora. Unfortunately, there is no way I can afford to spend another $1,000. As I was trying to get an estimate from Dr J on how much it would cost to stabilize Panda and if there were any things I could do at home with a glucometer to save money he said "Well, if you put her down you wouldn't be the first one." Then he launched into this story about a rich client he had who put her diabetic cat down because she couldn't be bothered to deal with it. It kind of sounds to me like he is the one who doesn't want to deal with it.
I am completely willing to put forth the effort and lifestyle changes needed to manage diabetes, but I don't have that kind of money. I tried asking him about Panda's quality of life, and he basically said he couldn't make any guarantees because she has a strange presentation. He has never seen a diabetic cat who is under weight, which she is (6.6 pounds; should be 8 or 9). She has never been obese. He said she is fragile and frail and "very sick", and I feel like he is angling for me to just put her to sleep, although he hasn't actually advised me to do so. I can't even adequately write a sentence to convey how much I do NOT want to put Pandora to sleep. It's unthinkable. But I also can't let her go untreated.
On Sunday, an acquaintance told me about her diabetic cat who is now in remission. She used a glucometer and did the glucose curve at home by herself in order to figure out how much insulin to give her cat. From what I have read while researching feline diabetes, others have done the same thing. Dr. J didn't seem to be a fan of this approach though. I feel like my options with him are to either do it the expensive way or put Panda down.
I think that putting Panda to sleep without trying to do SOMETHING is ridiculous. Even if it isn't the ideal method, if it is possible to do a glucose curve myself and figure out the insulin dose with a means that I can afford, isn't that better than just giving up on her without trying? It's pretty messed up to have to put my cat down just because I can't afford fancy testing, and I'm not ok with that, especially if there is another option.
I feel like I should tell the vet that this is what I want to do and he can support me in this, provide guidance around the results I get, and advise me on a dose based on that or I can take Panda's records somewhere else where they will support me in this process. From what I have read and heard, this sounds like a possibility. Am I way off track here? Am I missing something or being unrealistic? I don't really know what else to do.
Sorry this was so long. I appreciate any advice you can give me.