Babee is gone.........Fly Free Sweet Babee girl

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With a very heavy heart, I sent Babee to the Rainbow Bridge yesterday.

I was with her until the end, but I can't get the picture of her lifeless body with her tougue hanging out out of my mind. I was responsable for her death . I know I did the right thing. She wasn't eating for 3 day and she had an appetite stimulate that didn't help over the last 24 hrs. The vet said I could wait 24 more hrs and see if she eats, he didn't think she would regain her appetite. She spent her last 3 days of life in a cage hooked up to fluids..........I feel so guilty. I didn't want her to suffer. She look okay on the outside, but I knew she was not feeling well.

I can't stop crying. I am so upset I can't function. Everything here at home reminds of me her and that I will never kiss her or touch her again. I am crying so much and so hard that I hyper ventilate and I can't stop shaking.

This was the 1st time I was present during the process. She jumped 2 times when he gave her the injection and he said "this is not good". I lost it then, and was hysterical crying and saying "oh Babee, oh Babee" then her tongue came out and she went limp. I can't get this out of my mind. I miss her so much.

Babee was the best most wonderfully loving cat I have ever had. My other cat Aida is looking for her and crying. She is laying in Babee's favorite bed.

I don't want to do anything or even eat. I am so sick over this.

What can I do to get over this. I miss Babee so so much.

Fly Free Sweet Babee girl on the wings of Angels. I miss you so very much. I rescued you 8 years ago in Union Square in NYC. We bonded instantIy when I looked in your beautiful big blue eyes. I will treasure those 8 years forever. I am sorry it wasn't longer and you so didn't deserve this cancer, diabetes and pancreasitits. You always handled everything with dignity. You got me through many tough times. I couldn't have made it without you. You will forever be in my heart and I will never forget you. I LOVE YOU BABEE.

In Tears,
Kelly
 
Kelly, I'm so terribly sorry.

I know this is never easy, but please know all of us are here and feel your sadness. Babee was very fortunate to have you to love her for these past eight years. She is free of pain now, and although I know how much you and Aida miss her, she IS truly with you in spirit. And if she could tell you herself, she'd thank you for the beautiful life you shared, tell you how much she loves you, and express her joy that she is no longer ill.

It is one of the most difficult, but also the most loving decisions we can make.

God Bless you and Aida - and may your memories with Babee comfort you in the days ahead.

Lu-Ann
 
Dearest Kelly,
I'm so sad for you... Babee loved you loved you loved you. Hang on to that thought with all your might and Babee's love will stay with you and help you. You loved one another. That's the great and wonderful thing about Babee and you. Aida loves you and needs you. Talk to her about Babee and you.
With all my heart and soul,
Sophie
 
((((((Kelly))))))

I'm so sorry for your lost...Babee loved you with all her heart and she trusted you to do what was best for her. You gave her the last most loving gift we mere humans have to give our furry children. You took her pain away and took it into your own heart and soul. Babee isn't gone you just have to hug her differently now, she is always just a thought away from you and in time the memories of the love and life you shared these last eight years will once again bring a smile to your face.

Fly Free Pretty Girl

On Angel wings Babee visit your momma often in her dreams.

Mel, Maxwell, Musette & The Fur Gang
 
I am so sorry for your loss .. I have been where you are, broken hearted and devastated .. I hope the memories of the years you spent together will get you through this difficult time .. Fly Free Babee ...
 
{{hugs}}

I've been there for many of my cats when they needed help to cross over.

Sometimes, if they give a mild sedative first, it upsets the stomach and they lurch a bit.
 
I am crying for you and your pain reading what you went through. I had to do the same for my Saima in August, and it was horrible. Just know you did the best thing you could for her out of love. Again I am so sorry and hope you can find some peace as you remember all the love you and Babee shared.
 
I'm so sorry for your loss, Kelly. This has been a terrible last few months for our babies. We have lost so many. I also lost my baby after 16 years in September and had to make that decision too. It's a terrible thing to have to do but we knew it was the kindest thing to do for our babies and you have to keep that in mind. You saved her from suffering a terrible death and made it quick. It was a loving decision as all of your decisions have been. Don't beat yourself up over it but rather try to remember the good times. It will get better.

Hugs,
Melanie
 
Dear Kelly,

I'm so very sorry. Just remember you're not alone. You have the support of all of us here. And Babee's spirit is still with you. Letting her pass was an act of kindness. Her pain is gone now, and I'm sure she felt your love all through these past few difficult days and knew that your decision was a kind one, made out of love. And even now, I'm sure she feels you beside her and is happy.

I know it's so hard now. You and Aida will get through this. It will get better. Take comfort in one another.

And again, remember, you have everyone's support.

Big hug,
Elena
 
((((Kelly)))
I am so sorry that you lost your sweet Babee. You made a very hard decision, but one that was made out of love. Please don't feel guilty...
Fly free Babee and land ever so softly at the bridge.
wings_cat

Marcy & Klinger
 
I know how hard it must be for you. She was a wonderful cat I am sure. Please when the pain eases a bit. concentrate on the fact that you gave her 8 good years and I am sure she knew nothing but care and love. It is not easy to lose them this way, but you did the right thing, you really did.
 
You did your very best and gave her 8 good years. I'm so sorry for your loss. In fact I'm quite a mess, three cats lost in one night, I bawl at these messages. Better go have a cup of tea. I'll get one for you too, because you're going to need a lot of warm comforting beverages for awhile now.
~O) Here. Take this.
Breathe, and take things very slowly. (hugs) :cry:
 
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