Hey there! So I haven't been an active member of the forum lately, because my kitten is at good levels. But some key things that I remember from early on...
When Harry was first diagnosed, I just... zoned out. I didn't even listen to what the vet said because I was pretty much in shock. It was really, really hard, and really, really scary. Fortunately, my husband (who, at the time, had only known my kitten for less than a year) was there, and he was able to listen and take it all in. The main points I learned over the past two years or so:
- Depending on your type of insulin, how you want to give doses may vary. Some types impact your cat pretty quickly, and then go away quickly, such as Vetsulin. Others, like Lantus, build a deposit, and need to be constantly maintained.
- Once your kitty is used to it, there's no harm in checking blood sugar lots as you figure stuff out. It might pinch a bit but it's for the kitten's overall health. Harry understands that the pokes are for good things, and as long as it doesn't hurt too much, he'll cooperate just fine.
- There are a million resources on this website. Use them!
- Someone once made a comment that said that insulin is a hormone, not a drug. And that impacted me a lot, and helped me view it differently. If you think of it as a hormone, it makes more sense that it might take a while to build up and to change things. "Insulin is a hormone, not a drug. You don't always see obvious improvement when you go up with each increase in dose. Sometimes you reach a better dose and all of a sudden the good numbers show up." (
@Wendy&Neko)
- We do the best we can with what we are given. If you need to skip a dose, it's okay. It's better to have your cat be too high for a few days than be too low. Too high is bad longterm, but survivable. Too low can mean very, very bad things. Do what you can. It's okay. The members of this site are so, so understanding. I've messed up, I've done silly things, and they've never criticised me for it. They've said "hey, this doesn't make sense, have you tried xyz?" but they haven't called me an idiot, they haven't called me stupid, they haven't said I'm a bad pet momma for it.
- I know it's really, really scary at first. It's okay. I promise, it really is. Things will tone down before too long. I've fainted at the sight of needles before, and now I'm able to give my kitten shots, because I know that that is what he needs. Just know that as long as you're taking care of your sugarbaby, you're doing what you can. You can come here for help whenever you want to, or need to. It may seem like a HUGE burden at first. It's okay. It's not bad for you to wish things weren't so hard sometimes. Once you get used to the routine, it becomes just as normal as brushing your teeth.
- Be strong. It's okay to take time off for yourself sometimes. It's okay to let the responsibility fall on someone else for a little while, if you have to. Don't forget to take care of yourself while you're taking care of your kitty. You want to try to be as consistent for your cat as you can during this, but if you falter, it's okay.
You can do this. The members here are more than happy to help you. They're such good people.