Angel Calistica 7/1/93 - 11/7/11

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Thelma and Calistica

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Dear friends, Calistica was helped to cross the rainbow bridge at about 4:05 this afternoon. Our hearts are heavy with sorrow. It was time to free her from her sick body. We knew she didn't want to fight this battle.
She became sick around mid-October. An ultrasound revealed an "angry" pancreas which could be pancreatitis or panreatic cancer. We hoped for the best and wanted to believe it was pancreatitis. Also then she was diagnoses with diabetes. She was doing great with her insulin treatment and was a model patient. She loved getting ears pricked so she could get a treat. Last week though she wasn't feeling good. She wasn't eating well and that wasn't a good sign for this cat that loved her food so much. We took her to the ER on Saturday afternoon. She was admitted as her kidney values were high. She was put on fluids. We visited her yesterday and she perked up for us. I asked her to purr for me so I could hear and she did.
Today another abdominal ultrasound was performed and the findings were drastically different than the ones from 10/13/11. There was a mass in her pancreas and nodules in her abdominal cavity and the lining of her intestines. Her kidney values were elevated and fluids didn't improve them.

Ray and I spoke and we felt that the right thing to do for our little girl was to let her go before she suffered too much. Some of you advised me to talk with Calistica. When we got to the hospital she was brought to us in an examining room and all you had to do was look at her little face to know it was time. She just didn't want to fight anymore.
Ray told me that she told him yesterday that it was time. He didn't tell me that until this afternoon when we had a conference call with my friend the animal communicator.
Calistica told her it was time to let her go. She didn't want any of this anymore. She wanted us to celebrate her life with pictures of fun times. She said if a picture doesn't make you laugh then don't use it for my memorial.

She was on Ray's lap with her little forehead pressed against Ray's arm. His lap was her favorite napping spot. When she took her last breath our vet left us alone with our little girl. We cried and then celebrated her life by remembering the funny things she used to do. I always said she was the family clown.
When I first met Ray Calistica claimed him for herself. He was hers. She was daddy's little girl. She loved for him to play with her. She like her hats and butter too. She knew where Ray kept the butter up on the counter and she would get up there looking for it! she used to have a wand toy that she loved chasing around in circles. Sometimes she'd play by herself and the string would get wrapped around her body. She'd then walk around the house with the string wrapped around her body and the stick trailing behind her! That was really funny!

Ray and I want to thank you for all your support, advice and prayers,
Thelma, Ray and Angel Calistica
 
Thelma and Ray, I am so so sorry for your loss. Calistica is a very special angel who will certainly never be forgotten here in LantusLand. Thank you for sharing your happy stories!!! You are an amazing pair of beans...

Amy
 
(((Thelma and Ray))): So many tears for you. In such a short time, you all found your way into all of our hearts and your wonderful Calistica with her indomitable spirit has become one of our own.

She told you and you made the best decision for her out of pure love. And it was always so clear that your little beautiful calico girl is loved beyond measure. We will light a candle for her to help her on her
journey to meet with her sister Petuly and all of our other GAs.

Gentle journey; land softly sweet girl. You are free.

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I'm so sorry. Tears. My heart goes out to you and Ray.
Fly Free Beautiful Angel
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I will light a candle for her tonight, to help her find The Rainbow Bridge, where she will wait for you and Ray.
 
Thelma and Ray,
i'm so very sorry for your loss of Calistica....i know she meant so much to you both and she was a true fighter....

i'm at a loss for word Thelma....know that in the 3 1/2 yrs i've known you i have shared your sorrow of when you said good bye to Petuly and now Calistica....

my heart is soooo heavy and i can imagine yours is also....

i will write to you later...for now...know i will keep you in my thoughts and prayers in this very difficult time...

Fly Free dear Calistica wings_cat your sister Petuly awaits for you at the bridge along with other GA kitties.....

i'm sooo sooo sorry Thelma....i never expected this outcome
 
(((Thelma and Ray)))

I am so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing some of your happy memories of your sweet Calistica. May your memories of the love you shared and the long and happy life she lived sustain you through your sorrow.
 
((((Thelma and Ray))))) My sincerest thought are with you. That is never an easy decision to make, even when they tell you it's time. Enjoy your memories.
 
Most sincere sympathies and heartfelt condolences to Calistica's family and all who loved and cared for her.
 
I am so sorry to read this - so sorry for your loss. May there be comfort for you in the wonderful memories you have.

Fly free Angel Calistica, land softly at the bridge.
 

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Thelma-
my heart goes out to you and ray.

fly free, Little One...and land softly

all four of us lighting candles for your lovely girl...
Celi, Binks, Smudge, & Annie

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wings_cat (((Thelma and Ray))) I' so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing the stories of sweet Calistica. It is clear you hold her spirit close. Mortal life always ends, love never does.
 
Thelma and Ray,
Big loooong hug...I'm so sorry it was time for Calistica to leave. Bodies break but the spirit doesn't. She's not gone, you just have to hug her differently.

Calistica, thank you for bringing MamaBean and PapaBean here so we could get to know all of you.

Altho' you no longer have to fight the diabetes, please don't leave us.

Again, hugs.....
 
(((Thelma and Ray))) I'm so very sorry to learn of your loss. I can tell she was the light of your lives. My heart and prayers go out to you. She is at peace and free of pain. Hugs.
 
We are so very sad for the lost of your beloved Calistica. What a wonderful life she had and you will have so many great memories of how she enriched your lives. What a very special girl. She is now at the rainbow bridge, free of pain, full of energy, and welcomed by so many of our friends.
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((((((((Thelma and Ray))))))))))) I am so sorry, my heart breaks for you both. You set her free from pain which is the most loving unselfish act we can do. Please have comfort that Calistica was meant to be yours and she takes all the love you showered on her with her. Sending you lots of hugs.
 
((((Thelma & Ray))))
I am heartbroken for your loss. Know that you provided Calistica with the ultimate gift and the ultimate kindness. She chose her time and your respected her decision. She will be happy and playing with all of our companions who have gone ahead and who wait to be reunited with us. Calistica was dearly loved by you both -- even if she was a daddy's girl.

Fly free little girl and land softly.

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(((((((((Thelma and Ray)))))))))) Our hearts grieve with yours tonight. You have given your little girl the last gift of love. Fly Free , Sweet Calistia. Join your dear sister at the Bridge.

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Thelma and Ray, I'm so sorry this day had to come when you have to make such a difficult decision. My heart is breaking for you both. We will light a candle for Calistica tonight, and will hold you and Ray in our hearts in the coming days. Thank you for sharing her with us.

Fly free, sweet girl, and gentle landings.
 
Dear (((((Thelma and Ray))))),

Love is eternal. Find consolation in your wonderful memories and know that your girl is free of pain and illness and will always be with you. Fly free, beautiful Calistica, on your new golden wings. You are much loved.
Thank you, Thelma and Ray, for sharing this special girl with all of us. How lucky she was to have lived her long life with you.

In deepest sympathy,

Ella and Edward, Rusty, and Stu (GA)
 
Dear Thelma and Ray, My heart is heavy in reading this news. I am so sorry for the loss of Calistica. Fly free sweet baby.

Pattie
 
Thelma and Ray, I am so sorry to hear about your sweet girl. I know how very sad you are but I also know that Calistica was a very lucky kitty to be with you in this life. I wish every kitty could have that.
Liz
 
(((((Thelma))))) ((((((Ray)))))))

I am so sorry to hear about your loss, she sounds like she had both of your hearts in her paw and was a very special girl. wings_cat
 
I'm sorry for your loss .. It's always hard to let them go, but it is the greatest act of love we can give them when it is their time .. Fly Free sweet baby girl ..
 
what a lovely tribute you wrote, thelma. you have been the best possible beans for calistica - it's so obvious - she was a sweetie and she loved you. wishing you & ray peace and grace in the days ahead.
 
Thelma and Ray, I am so, so sorry for the loss of your beloved, Calistica. Although you have only been here on LL a short time, Calistica is just one of those kitties that touched our hearts. Your words are a lovely tribute to Calistica and to the long wonderful life she shared with you both.
 
:cry: lighting Butthead's candle for you...



MJ&Donovan&Butthead's spirit
 

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I am sorry your time with your girl is up because it sure sounds like you all had a wonderous time together. Keep smiling for your girl, even through the tears.
 
I am very sorry that Calistica have to leave you and Ray. Your love for her surely carried her gently and peacefully away. But she will be forever in your hearts.

((((Many warm hugs to you both.)))))
 
through your heartbreak, you heard her needs and selflessly put those above your own. sweet Calistica will be with you forever.

fly free, pretty one.
 
Thelma and Ray,
My heart breaks for you both. I am so sorry. Just know that you gave her the greatest gift of all.....the gift of unselfish and unconditional love.
Saying a prayer for you and yours,
Mares and Miss
 
Thelma & Ray,

We're so sorry for your loss. Calistica will always be with you in you memories and in your hearts. You gave her the gift of life when she became ill and the gift of the Rainbow Bridge when she was ready to move on. Your love for her shines, even in your grief. :YMHUG:

Fly free and land softly dear Calistica wings_cat
 
Thelma,

I am so sorry it was Calistica's time to go. I know you will miss your little family clown. I enjoyed Calistica's stories. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Ray.

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(((Thelma Ray)))
 
I am so sorry. Please find comfort in the loving memories of your sweet Calistica. She had a life full of love and now she is free from all pain. You are in my prayers.
 
Calistica was deeply loved and I know she will be deeply missed. I am so sorry for your loss.
Fly free Calistica
 
Thank you so much for your words of comfort, prayers and candles. Thank you for welcoming us into this wonderful Lantus family.
Calistica told my friend the animal communicator that her job was to bring joy and laughter into our lives. I would say to that: Calistica, mission accomplished!
When we were saying goodbye to her I told her how much we loved her and that she would always have a special place in our hearts. I told her how much joy and love she filled our lives and our hearts with.
When we lost Angel Petuly it hurt pretty bad. Calistica helped me through that sad time. Now the house is empty. I see her many beds all over the house and I just want to hug them and press against my heart.
I knew in my heart that letting her go was the biggest act of love we could do for her. It was the right thing to do. I know she is in a better place now but my heart is aching so badly because we lost our little girl. I can't hold her anymore. I know her spirit is and will always be with us.
You are all an amazing group of people. Thank you so much!
Thelma, Ray & Angel Calistica
 
I am very sorry for your loss of Calistica. I know how much you will miss her, but she will always be in your heart. I'm sending you prayers for peace and comfort.

Fly Free Calistica. wings_cat
 
((((((Thelma & Ray))))))) My heart is absolutely breaking for you today--You were blessed with many happy years with Calistica, and she had a wonderful life with you...I feel for you as I lost My boy Copper in may, and still have Moonie, so I know what you mean about the emptiness..
Although we all know, when we take these angels into our lives, that they cannot live as long as we do, we still do it--Grief is the price we pay for Love, and Calistica gave you so much LOVE--
She is still around you & believe me, she is well and pain free...We will al be together with our beloved babies someday..Love NEVER DIES!!
Praying for you to have Peace, and you did everything you both could , and she knows you gave her a great life--Comforting HUGS from us!
 
I am so sorry for your and Ray's loss. She was a beautiful girl and your love for her shines through in your words. Peace and good loving memories to you as you move through the coming days.

Thank you for your moving tribute to your wonderful Calistica. Tears are falling.
 
I am so very sorry for your loss. For all of the joy that our fur babies bring us the pain of losing them is just so awful.

Hugs to you and Ray ....

Fly Free Sweet Calistica wings_cat

xo
Caryl, Alex and Jackson
 
Thank you all again. Your words have brought me a lot of comfort. Calistica's earthly body will be cremated at 3PM EST today.
I bought two beautiful roses so we can put over her body. I'm bringing one of her little fleece blankies too.
I wanted to buy a pink, yellow or white rose but I could not find one around here. I found these beautiful roses which I wasn't going to buy and I told the lady why I wanted the roses. She said: "then this rose is perfect. It's called free spirit!" Needless to say I bought two of those roses.

Calistica came to me twice yesterday morning to let me know she was fine. What a blessing! I know my baby is healthy and strong again.
Hugs to all of you,
Thelma
 
(((Thelma and Ray)))

May you find comfort in knowing she had a good life thanks to you both! and I know she brought so much joy to your life as well....

hugs

Claudia, Darren, Rocket and Comet (the dog)
 
Thelma, I have been thinking of you so much over the last few days and hoping that you would get a sign from your dear girl that she is ok. So happy that you have received those signs. What a blessing. The name of the roses you bought is perfect. I will be thinking of you today and hoping you can find a little peace in knowing that Calistica is also at peace.
 
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