Sue, do you have people who can come over and help you out? I'm sure you must be overwhelmed with everything right now. Maybe even hiring someone to come in and just deal with some things you need help with might be worth considering if you haven't thought about something like that already. I'm sure you are going to be worn out for a while to come, so hopefully you can maybe line up some friends, family, or people for hire :mrgreen: to help you out. Even if they can't help with Sam, maybe just getting some other things off your plate would help you out.
I'm so sorry you are in this pickle and having such a hard time right now. I wish I knew what to do to help you more. Sending good thoughts & prayers your way. :YMHUG: