Dearest Occhi -- sorry, Dude, mom talk...
I would have certainly shot at 401 myself.
Despite your 143, I say have a little chocolate! It's been a rough night for you, too!
I have a couple of questions because I'm new to you and Dude, okay? Did he used to be a grazer? If so, then let him graze. No dry, just good old low carb wet food, okay? Feed the same thing to all his furry siblings. Let them all graze! Adjustments can be made later if they need to be.
It doesn't have to be a rollercoaster, dearest Occhi, but it will always be a dance.
And, there's nothing like dancing with a sugar cat! Trust me!
Belated welcome to the place you never, ever wanted to be; but, will be blessed for having found.
Love and encouraging hugs for you and Dude,
Deb and Nikki -- and, Giz, forever dancing in my heart and who sent me Nikki...