You're very lucky.. my husband works out of town most of the time..and when he's gone he talks about how he's going to help when he's home, give me a break, let me sleep in.. funny every time he comes home he gives me some new "reason" he can't.. her dose changed, she's been low, she's been high, the sky is blue.. it's dark out..etc.. (the real reason, Nova isn't the easiest cat to shoot sometimes and he's a big pussy).
Definitely understand you picking your battles.. don't feel bad! My husband has done the other cats medications before when I wasn't physically able to (surgery, before Nova was on insulin).. and I know if I made it an "issue" he would.. just don't really feel like getting upset over it.
Congratulations on the wedding!