2/15 Blackie amps 264 pmps 307

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Ele & Blackie (GA)

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Good Morning LL,
I want to thank you all for your prayers and healing thoughts and energies. I cried every time I read your posts, but it was the tears from hugs and comfort from friends. Thank you so much being here for us.

Blackie had a pretty good night. With the help of the Mirtazapine, he ate really well. Once again he sat up quite a bit and I finally realized it was probably because the fluid in his chest is making him uncomfortable. So I got a wedge pillow that I had in storage and put him on it and he was able to lay down with his head elevated. He looked much more comfortable and slept there most of the night. He ate pretty well this morning too.

I should have done this before, but last night I started measuring his food more precisely with my little postal scale. I’m measuring the amount of food and then the water that gets added and then weighing the bowl again when he doesn’t finish it so I know how much he ate. I need to set up a spreadsheet for this. I am also weighing him daily too. I really believe that I wouldn’t have gotten him in to the vet as soon as I did if I hadn’t been weighing him and saw the sudden weight gain. By measuring his food, I'm hoping I will be able to tell if he's retaining more fluids or not.

I am trying to keep the anticipatory grief at bay, but it has been difficult. Although Blackie had a good night, I did not. I cried so much, I got a migraine. I’m better this morning and its probably a good thing to be at work to take my mind off of it. I hope to hear the bloodwork results tomorrow, but it may be Thursday before we hear. I’m also trying not to think beyond today. Again, thank you for all your support and love.

Yesterday's sad post: viewtopic.php?f=9&t=36776
 
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((((((((((((Ele and Blackie)))))))))))))) Sending you lots of hugs today. You two are in my thoughts today and thinking good things for both of you.
 
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(((Ele-Blackie))) You are in our thoughts and prayers. Remember today is a gift, tomorrow is uncertain for all of us. Enjoy each day and try not to worry about what tomorrow will bring. I'm glad Blackie had a somewhat comfortable night. I hope the same for you tonight. Please try and think positive. Sending healing vines, white light and snowflakes.
 
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Oh Ele...i totally relate to your post...and yes i too cry each time i read posts from people here wishing us well....it is an overwhelming feeling...the gratitude to know people here care.....

i will continue to pray for you two...you are doing a great job with Blackie...and he knows that...i'm certain...

measuring the food and water intake from the food is a good idea....i never thought of that....

(((Ele and Blackie)))
 
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((((((((((Ele & Blackie)))))))))) I'm so glad that Blackie seemed to have a better night. We are all here sending white light for strength for both of you.
 
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Ele & Blackie said:
Once again he sat up quite a bit and I finally realized it was probably because the fluid in his chest is making him uncomfortable. So I got a wedge pillow that I had in storage and put him on it and he was able to lay down with his head elevated. He looked much more comfortable and slept there most of the night.
Ele, I don't remember yesterday's post and I don't have time to read through it again (it's lunchtime and I'm running home to check on Meowzi - she pulled a fast one on me last night!) but has the vet discussed whether it's possible to tap the fluid in his chest to keep him more comfortable? Here's a recent post by Jess/Earl on that viewtopic.php?f=28&t=36066&p=378635#p378635 It does depend on where the fluid is.

(((Blackie))) (((Ele)))
 
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(((Ele))), Barbara is right: one day at a time and each day is a gift. You are doing so well and thinking so clearly. I admire you greatly, and I pray that you will continue to have the strength and confidence to take such excellent care of your boy. The pillow and the food weighing--such tiny things in themselves that make such a great difference!
I hope you will be able to get some good sleep yourself tonight.
More vines are on the way,

Lots of hugs, too

Ella & Rusty
 
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You are doing such a loving wonderful job with Blackie--We all feel so much for you..
One of us here hurts -we all hurt..Sending Healing Prayers, White light and Snowflakes to dear Blackie..
Comforting Hugs from us!!
 
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DH reported that Blackie has eaten really well today. And his numbers aren't bad either. I hope he's feeling better too. Thank you all again for all of your support.
 
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Hi Ele. Eating well sounds like he is feeling well, right? :smile:

The wedge pillow was a very good idea. With chest congestion it's much easier to breathe, being elevated.
 
Hi Ele - I am glad to read that Blackie had a better night. Good idea on the wedge to help him stay elevated. I liked what Barbara wrote - it is true, for me: today is a gift, tomorrow is uncertain. Enjoy what is there before you, and try not to worry about what is unknown. Mannie and I send as many healing vines as we can find. You are in our thoughts.
 
(((Ele and Blackie))) .....you are doing wonderful with him....that was so great to think of the little wedge to keep him comfy. I know this is so hard, Ele. Just love your darling little boy like you always do....it is so good for both of you and try not to grieve ahead of time. Sometimes they can really amaze us. We had a kitty with liver cancer and when the first chemo treatment almost killed him, the vets said he only had weeks. He lived for four more months...good QOL because we promised we wouldn't drag it out if he didn't have QOL. Faith...I have faith.
 
Ele & Blackie, I'm sending tons of healing vines your way, along with tons of good thoughts. I wish for him and you to make a full and speedy recovery. *HUGS* Hang in there, girl.
 
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