Hang in there girl. I understand how you feel. My mom had to have the feral s picked up today because they were going to evict her for feeding them. She's heartbroken, but on SS and can't afford to be spending $20 a week feeding feral s. She has 2 of her own, a 6mo old feral she's trying to domesticate and a 10 yr old that's declawed and can't protect himself from the feral. She should have never gotten another one under those circumstances. I told her it wasn't fair to him, but she won't listen. Now she's all crying and such cause she's been feeding the ferals at her apt complex for 4 years.
I'd have to agree, it's not worth risking the health of your babies. Seems they should have kept them until they were well or not contagious anyway.