10/19 Leo AMPS 245 +1 306 +5.75 280 +11 127 PMPS 137

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Lisa & Leo

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Yesterday's Condo from Hell

Good morning everyone. What a day we had. In a nutshell, to be blunt, it sucked. Let me first thank Carl & Bob, Marje and Gracie, and Leslie & Jasper for being there when I got home. I put up a short, sad post and you guys were there for me within probably 10 minutes. I cried and felt a little lighter to get your hugs after our 5 and a half hour our mess. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. And for Michelle and Mannie with your hugs and coffee waiting when I woke this morning early. This board is the greatest place, and I am so thankful to be here and to have you all in our lives.

Yesterday was our commute home. On a perfect day it takes me (alone) about 3 hours and 15 minutes. With Leo it has taken a bit longer because we always have an emergency body fluids stop. His nerves get the best of him within the first half hour and he poops in his carrier. (Even when I stopped once 30 minutes into the trip and let him out. He was fine, but pooped 10 minutes after we got back on the road).

Yesterday he got the Cerenia, then about 40 minutes later threw a 43. :shock: After a couple long days and nights and two dose reductions, and bouncing and shed dumping. I had to carb/Karo him - I didn't know if the Cerenia had been in him long enough without food to prevent the barfing. So, in all irony to Marje, she actually had to recommend Karo to me (!!!!!) as a way to get his BG up without shoving food in him. Oh, after she's gently weened me off of slathering on Karo, will I ever let her forget this? :-D :-D :-D

So we got on the road and about 15 minutes in he squats. I immediately open the door, he jumps out and tries to poop in the box (GOOD BOY!!!) But I'm driving and trying to hit an exit, and bouncing him around, and he actually pooped outside the box, but it WASN'T HIS FAULT. He tried, pooping while being bounced around. BG mid yellows. God love his little self. So I get off, and he's peed in the carrier. But I FINALLY figured out how to tape pee pads in there so I can pull out the top one without messing up the lower ones. AMAZING those things are - trapped urine from a full bladder. Amazing. So, back on the road after pees and poops - and I think I'm Home Free!

Then about an hour or so in, he stands up and I see he's got foam dropping from his mouth :shock: :shock: :shock: I pull over on the highway and put my hazard lights on (my entire commute is 3 lane highways). There's a large pool of saliva in the carrier and he's foaming. I immediately let him out and he lays in the litter box. I test him, over 400. Okay, not BG. I Google Stressed Cat Foaming Mouth and it suggests stress. So, he's stressed, like I didn't know that. He's never foamed before. Then a road-side truck with the yellow flashing lights pulls up behind us. I explain I have a sick cat and thank him very much for stopping. I clean him up, and let him lay in the litterbox while I drive.

About 20 minutes later, we hit traffic. Everyone come to a stop and creeps along an average of 3 miles an hour. For nearly an hour. Now it's dark and there are big rigs with bright lights and loud engines all around us. He crawls over with his paws on my leg and his butt near between the radio and the gear shift (automatic car). After a bit, he crawls all the way on my lap and remains there for that construction mess, and then 10 minutes later we end up in another near standstill construction mess for another half hour. His very upset. I jump highways and he stays on my lap. Unsafe, yes. He was harnessed and clipped to a leash around my seatbelt. After a bit he started moving around, and we stopped, he pooped (wet) in the box, BG over 400. Then he rode in the carrier all the way home, miserable. But he only cried twice and he never tried to frantically escape, which is progress.

I was beside myself, trying not to cry as we drove. I felt horrible horrible horrible at what I was doing to him, and that this has to continue twice a week for the foreseeable future. I hate this damned disease. I hate it, and what it is doing to us. I'm crying now again, dammit.

We got home, he wouldn't eat, but we were 2 hours late on shot time and I shot him anyway. He'd eat fresh chicken, and if he didn't eat anything else, I'd let him eat the whole thing. He did manage to get some food down in the night, and he settled into some yellows, thankfully. This morning, he ate a little, but actually ate a salmon treat, which he LOVES but wouldn't touch last night.

Tomorrow I will do a Xanax trial. I gave half a dose a month ago and it didn't seem to do anything. I know in some animals it works the opposite, but I have to try because this is so hard on him.

Today Molly goes to the vet for her pre-dental. She's got a different medical issue, and some tests are finally stabilized so she can get a badly needed dental. I think a tooth will come out, but we will see. Every time I come home, SOMEONE has to go to the vet. I am routinely branded as Bad Mommy.

Anyway, thanks for letting me dump. Big sigh of calming. It is a crappy rainy day here. I'm going to get my hair cut after the vet. So I can relax and read some trashy gossip magazines and forget about things for a while, assuming he's doing ok.

Mannie - thank you for the custom delivery to the gym this morning. Your dedication to ensuring I don't drink regular old icky coffee is a special thing about your wonderful furry self. Tell your mamabean to give you special skritches from us.
 
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Hats off to the L&L Road Warrior Team !!!! :YMHUG: You and Leo deserve a free cruise to the Caribbean!! I`m so sorry it was such a hard trip this time cat_pet_icon Great idea for the Beauty Parlor Therapy tho'!... I wish you both a speedy recovery. Back to the Salmon treats, a good sign.

Love and Hugs from us
Alexa&Reuben
 
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Morning Lisa and oh my, what a drive back home and all you have been going thru lately. You mentioned you will need to do this drive twice a week. Is this to your Mom's house. I guess there's no way you can stay the week if you need to be at work back home. Well, you sure do deserve a lot of pats on the back for being such a good Bean to Leo. I'm sorry he got car sick, but you're handling things. That had to be so frustrating with the construction and delays. Nice of the truck driver to stop and offer help. Good luck with the Xanax trial. That may be your answer with the trips, fingers and paws crossed for success. Lots of ((hugs))) and comfort vines for you and Leo today.
Leo, can I come visit you again today? I'll bring chickin soup, Mags
 
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Hi guys .. oh man, do I ever feel for you and what you have been through! I know this is hard on you, but you are doing the best you can .. Leo loves you ... he may not understand what is going on, but what he does understand is total love and trust, the trust that you have built with him over all the time you've had him .. you aren't undoing that trust and you just have to keep telling yourself that .. hang in there!!!!! :YMHUG:
 
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@Alexa - thanks - I'll take the cruise and Leo wants to hang out anywhere that doesn't involve travel!!! :-D So happy he's back to his treats. I was so sad when he didn't eat them.

@Ann - I work in Maryland and live in New Jersey. I have an apartment in MD and commute during the week. So Leo drives down to my work apartment and back. Most times I had to stay down a weekend for something or other, so he only had to travel every 8ish days. We've only had 2 trips. After this economy picks up, we'll all be living together again. Paws crossed for that to happen soon.

Mags - I'll drop by and have some soup. It sounds delightful, sis. I might also head over to Rusty's and hang on the warm radiator. Why don't you come too?


@Devon - I hope he knows. I know he comes to me when he's scared and I'm there (well, when he doesn't run under the couch) but it's hard when I'm he one making him scared!!! Thanks for the warm thoughts.

Off to the parlor! I may fall asleep in the chair!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:
 
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:YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: cat_pet_icon cat_pet_icon cat_pet_icon I know how you feel, I had to travel (only an hour though) when I was teaching on Saturdays and didn't dare leave Tess. We can't leave them and they are so stressed when bring them along. You are doing amazing ly w/ Leo!

Enjoy the trashy magazines!
 
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Thank you, Ann. I just with we could say, "It's okay - Mommy will take care of you!" Thanks for the hugs.

Read nearly 2 People Magazines. JLo is fighting with someone I don't know about something I don't understand. Sarah Palin lost weight and they thing she's too skinny. 5 Celebrity houses are for sale. Oprah has a white dog. Jack Osborne (Ozzy's son) got married, had a baby, and was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis 2 weeks later. Sucks. Wow.

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Enjoy the pampering. You deserve it. You are a great warrior indeed. Maybe Little Leo will behave tonight and you can get some sleep.
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Wow - what a day. Almost everything that could go south did. We here's hoping that's the worst day and it just gets better. Pampering yourself is exactly the right thing to do and Leo is giving you permission to take some time to relax. Reading what happened is scary. I think of the 6 days on the road with Neko and what happened to you is what were were expecting. Good luck on the new meds, I hope it turns him into a much mellower cat. There's got to be a solution for him out there. (((Lisa and Leo)))

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Oh Lisa. :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG:

I read Leo's profile to DH last night and just want you to know how LUCKY Leo is to have you care for him. He adopted you and you adopted him. I think he knows how much you love him. What a trooper you both are for the travel woos. Lets hope the Xanax works for him and gives him a more peaceful travel.

FD sucks. But you have done an amazing job caring for this little guy. Can't offer any advice. But, at least you have a safe place to vent your frustrations. Hope your pampering day has refreshed you.

Karen
 
@Shannon - what a great picture!!! I hope you're right and this is the worst that there is to experience! I got my hair cut and it just felt wonderful to get a mini head-massage - I could have fallen asleep. Ahhhhh. We'll let you know how the meds do. Thank you.

@Karen - thanks for all the hugs! We certainly have a story with the little guy. DH says things happen for a reason. I wish I knew what that is, but hopefully at some point we will understand.

Good night and thanks for stopping by - Lisa & Leo
 
I'm sorry your trip home went so crazy. I hope the Xanax helps Leo. Just keep reminding yourself you're doing the best you can for him and he knows that. Hope you can get some rest tonight.
 
Hi Lisa , You are doing a great job with Leo and I am sure he knows it. Glad you got a some time to take care of yourself today too. Ugh on your commute, hope the Xanax helps Leo cope with it. More hugs :YMHUG: and cat_pet_icon .
 
((((Lisa))))))
What an awful day you two had!
It sounds like you coped as well as you could with the situation. I think I remember you saying last night that Leo wanted out of his room
after you got home. It sounds like he really has bonded with you and knows you love him.
I hope the xanax can help.
I had a cat once that I adopted from a couple who had retired and bought an RV and their cat couldn't travel. She always lost it from all three orifices immediately in the car. But then she settled down , empty and miserable.
They found me to take her in and give her a good home.

Paws crossed for you to find a solution to help Leo cope.
Vent all you want.
We are all happy to give you support ... This sure isn't easy....
Looks like Leo is sliding down now that you guys are home.
 
((((Lisa))))....wow...after reading your first post, your trip was even worse than I thought.
And life is full of ironies but it gives us a chance to laugh :lol: :lol:

I'm so glad to see him coming down tonight. Way to go Leo.

Sleep well.
 
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