10/19 Babibear's lost without Ginger

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Lori in Ohio

Lori in Ohio

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Babibear's lost without Ginger, he is searching everywhere for her.
He is going to the spot where she use to lay down and cry's.
Its awful to watch.

They were both born together and were so close. There wasnt a day where they didnt cuddle together.

yesterday
 
i know - it is so tough on the one's left behind, especially when they are litter mates. I am so sorry for the loss on Ginger, and I feel for Babibear. Their siblings feel the loss as much as we do. Lots of love and cuddles from all of us for Babibear. I hope you guys are doing ok. many hugs from us all.
 
Hi Lori,
Babibear needs to mourn, too. It will take time for all of you. Shower him with love and attention. And don't forget that Ginger will always be watching over him and you.
Many hugs and much sympathy,

Ella
 
((( Lori )))

This is so heartbreaking. He probably is going places that still carry her scent. I saw your slideshow pictures the other day and they were so precious together. I know you're all hurting without Ginger but it's so hard to watch their soul mates adjust. He may have sensed she was sick before you knew. I wonder if he had your shirt that was with her at the vet's if it would help him.
 
poor Babibear, my heart goes out to both of you. I hope the pain passes soon and the two of you are filled with the loving memories of Ginger.
 
Poor little Babibear. :( I know he's mourning. He knows that things aren't right anymore. Just give him time, tons of love and tons of attention.

{{{{{{{{{{HUGS TO YOU ALL}}}}}}}}}}
 
So sorry Lori...those of us who have litter mates living together all these years understand his pain. They are twins and he doesn't really understand what has happened.

I do agree with Nina that he might have known that something was going on with Ginger before you even suspected. Maybe that shirt that you brought to the hospital will give him comfort if you still have it....

It is so great to have twins....they are so loving with each other through their whole lives. And yet, when one leaves, it is very difficult for the one left behind. I wish I had something to suggest besides the shirt...but I know that I myself will face the separation of my two one day as well. Words to him of what happened might help, as you shower him with lots of love and much affection. Talk to him about it...it might sound silly, but by picturing things we might be able to get through to them on a level that we don't understand. (((((Balibear))))) Sending healing vines to him....and to you.... :YMHUG: :YMHUG:
 
The shirt was washed by the people at the hospital.
But yes, her scent is everywhere here.

The few days before I took her to the hospital, Babibear knew she was not doing well.
He would lay by her and lick her little head, like he was taking care of her. He rarely left her side her last day at home.
 
I am so sorry for your loss.
My heart goes out to you and Babibear. It's heartbreaking to watch them wonder around like that.
You two are going through so much right now. You both need time to mourn. Give Babibear lots of extra loves and cuddles.
Maybe you have one of Ginger's favorite toys you can give to Babibear.

When DC lost his litter mate 5 years ago, he took AC's favorite toy and slept with it all the time.
DC never slept in the big chair where AC slept. But once AC was gone, that became the one place that DC always slept, curled up with AC's toy.
 
She wasnt really into toys.
He has been laying in "her spot" all day.
I gave him some treats to get his mind off of her for a minute.

I wont be vacuuming that spot for awhile. I think he needs her scent to be there.
 
((((((HUGS)))) to you and I hope that after some time passes Babibear will be better its heartbreaking to see them like that they must have been so close to one another ((((hugs))) for Babibear
 
(((((((((((((((((((Lisa and Babibear))))))))))))))))) All i can say is that hugs and cuddles are the best thing for both of you.
 
Babibear may not want extra attention, as he's mourning, so please understand if he doesn't. Also, Pat's idea of sending mental pictures to him is good. I believe that's the way other species communicate and especially between two different species. Give him lots of love with your eyes, and be patient with him. It's so sad :(
 
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