Sorry all, I know Lantus is the fast lane so I'll be as brief as I can.
@Juliet By now you know I'm not a good communicator. Everyone knows. I know saying "Try an enormous dog crate" is right up there with "Why don't you just move?"
Nothing is ever that simple. Sometimes what was meant as an act of compassion looks either like pity or implying the obvious, that was not my intent. I know you're doing your best and it's obvious from your posts that you know what you're doing medically. Some men get older and can either be condescending or over protective and sometimes the two sound the same.

We all want you to stay.