1/19 Salem is gone

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Camille and Cyclone

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This week Salem was diagnosed with highly probable intermediate stage lymphoma of the intestines. I scheduled an appointment with an oncologist to discuss chemo, but meanwhile Salem continued to lose ground slowly. He showed no interest in food, continued to lose weight despite tube feeding, in the last days became detached and uninterested in his surroundings, and starting Thursday night seemed uncomfortable and restless, meatloafing all the time and not sleeping in a natural position. I gave Tramadol which had little effect. The Prednisolone and antibiotics seem to have helped him very little if at all. Yesterday his eyes became sunken and he seemed unable to see much again. He'd purr when I petted and tube-fed him but otherwise just lay there with his head down except to go to the water bowl or the litterbox.

I pretty much lost hope that chemo would restore him to any reasonable quality of life, and my vet said in his condition he'd probably not tolerate it as well as most cats. It was a very hard and painful decision, but this morning I decided to let him go. It was quiet and peaceful. I emailed Kim and she called me a few minutes later, and we both cried a good deal. Then I had the sad task of putting away the feeding syringes, fluids kits, medications, diabetic testing supplies, etc. I lost it when I picked up the magnifying headset I had gotten to help with measuring micro doses of insulin.

Salem was a wonderful, bold, strong, fearless, friendly kitty, full to overflowing with personality. He was 16 years young, and happy and vigorous until this illness began three weeks ago. He had Kim and me, two parents who loved him very much. I'll miss him.
 
So sorry to hear the news! Prayers and hugs being sent your way. What a good Mamabean you are helping Salem through all this. You made the right decision. Fly free sweet Salem!
 
I'm so very sorry you had to say good bye to Salem. He takes all your love with him and leaves all his here with you and with Kim. my deepest sympathihes to you - mary and oliver
 
(((((Camille)))))
I am so sorry. My heart aches for you and Kim. You were Salem's hero and did so much to help him have the best possible life. There are so few words I can think of that will offer true comfort other than to acknowledge your decision was made based on what Salem was telling you he needed. And your decision was made out of love an devotion.

WCF sent me this link some time ago. It is the fable of why we choose tears. I hope it offers some comfort.

Fly free, Salem and land softly. Many who we dearly love will be at the Bridge to keep you safe until the ones you and the ones you love best are reunited.

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(((((Camille)))))

I'm so sorry to hear about Salem. Salem was so very fortunate to have such a great mamabean. He was loved.

Fly free sweet Salem and land softly where you will be surrounded and comforted by all the furbabies who have gone before you.

Tena, Curry(GA), Sidney and Zeke
 
Dear (((((Camille))))), Dear (((((Kim))))),

Salem was such a lucky kitty to have two beans who loved him very much and whose love he returned in such abundance. Camille, Salem knew that it was his time. We are glad that his illness was brief and his passing peaceful. You did everything you could to make him comfortable and unafraid. His star will shine brightly in the heavens tonight. We will light Stu's candle to help guide him to the Bridge.

Fly free, sweet Salem, on your beautiful new golden wings. You are much loved.

In deepest sympathy,

Ella & Edward, Rusty, and Stu (GA)
 
(((Dear Camille))) I am so very very sorry to read your post ....my condolences to you and Kim.
Salem will be missed....your beautiful memories will remain and hopefully they will give you comfort through your tears. Hugging you across the miles...
Although very difficult for you to do, you did give Salem the final gift that was needed to be set free from pain....

wings_cat Fly Free Dear Salem, until we meet again.....
 
I am so very sorry for your loss.
I lost my Sammy this past Sept.
To intestinal Lymphoma. . Sending you such a tight hug!
Again, I'm so very sorry.
 
I am so sorry for your loss, and kim's too .. May you both take comfort in knowing salem is at the rainbow bridge completely healthy and happy, just waiting till you all meet again ..
 
Camille,
I am so sorry that your sweet boy had to leave you. He was very lucky to have to loving parents as you and Kim. That decision is never easy, but know that he knew how much he was loved. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Fly Free Sweet Salem. wings_cat
(((Camille))) (((Kim)))
 
I'm so very sorry, Camille and Kim. Making this kind of decision is hard, but is the ultimate gift of love we can give our kitties.
This is so sad.

wings_cat Fly free dear Salem...
 
Oh dear.....it is so hard to lose ones we love. Thank heavens he had you and Kim, and thank heavens he was able to tell you that he was ready to pass. You nursed him and loved him and made him as comfortable as you could and he knew that. He is at peace. wings_cat
 
Camille I'm so sorry for your and Kim's loss of Salem. You are in our Prayers. wings_cat
 
(((((CAMILLE))))) I am so so sorry for your loss!!! You had a wonderful life with Salem, and he had a life filled with love & caring from you...When they go, they take a piece of our hearts that can never be replaced--Feel proud & Glad you had such a wonderful Love in your Life=Salem!!
Sorry he was taken so quickly, but it was better for him..Sending Comforting Hugs and LOve from us!!
Fly Free Salem, feel well again--May your memories help you find peace!
 
(((Camille)))) we are so terribly sorry that your sweet boy has crossed. But what a loving and amazing mom he had that you could give him the gift of freedom and health again. How lucky for him that you recognized he was ready to go and your great love for him was more important than the pain you knew you would feel when you were no longer able to hold and love him and witness his amazing spirit.

Gentle journey, Salem. A life well loved and lived.

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Oh, no. I'm so sorry Camille. I had hoped the feeding tube would help Salem turn around and gain his strength back. It is sobering find out that there is so much going wrong and although you really tried heroic efforts to help him, there was just too much to fight. I'm glad you had the joy of loving Salem and he carries that love with him forever - as you always will carry his love for you. ♥

I know your heart is breaking but you did the kindest thing by setting him free. ((((((Camille)))))

I lit a candle for Salem.

http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/message.cfm?l=eng&cid=17729542
 
(((((((Camille and Kim)))))))

You all have had quite a ride together. I'm so sorry to hear Salem is gone. He was such a lucky boy to have had both of you.

Fly free, sweet sweet Salem. wings_cat
 
Aaaah Honey...Losing a kitty is hard enough, but we who have connected with our own, even more, because of the daily treatment. We are
with you Camille and all our hearts go out to you.
God Bless you.
Shelly
 
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