06/10 Alex AMPS 177 A&J Update

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Hi LL Family,

I know I haven't posted a condo in a long time, so long that I don't even recognize half of everyone on here, but I had some free time this 'morning' and figured an update was due. It is very difficult for me to post on a daily basis because of my schedule. I used to complain that my hours were too crazy late...well now I start work at 6:00 AM and I have been working OT whenever possible to support Alex and Jackson's ever changing cat food changing habits. (One day I like this, the next day I don't...and so on). I keep telling them about the starving cats all over the world but they JUST don't get it. ohmygod_smile

Everything I am going to post comes with an UNJINX in front, in the middle, and after it.

Alex has been doing well for the most part. He has a few episodes of what may appear to be mid pancreatits or just gastritis but they have come and gone very quickly. He has a bad tooth that appears to bother him when he eats but because of his HCM and his thyroid issues I have been told that he is not a good risk for anesthesia. I have tried doing the once a month Clindamycin therapy with him but unfortunately Alex gets very ill very quickly from Clindamycin so that is out of the question for him as well. It isn't keeping him from eating (AT ALL) and he doesn't cry. It's just what I notice so I had the vet look at his mouth and there is one tooth that makes him chatter when it is touched. Hopefully, as the others have, it will get loose and fall out because I have chosen not to risk possibly losing him to a dental when he is otherwise a happy, hungry, cuddly, even kinda playful boy (in spite of the neuropathy that never reversed itself). All p's are in order and he ALWAYS has his purry pants on these days :-D

My Jackson is another story....the light and love of my life is what really has kept me from posting.Not that I don't adore Alex cause I DO. It's just a 'different' relationship. Without going into much detail, I thought I was going to have to say goodbye to him on Memorial Day weekend. His HCM has now also become CHF. The vet surprised me when he told me that there were things we could try and no he did not have to be...well you know.... unless I wanted to (ha ha ha :cry: ) and so far Jackson is doing well. UNJINX UNJIX UNJINX!

So aside from my life being a little sad (it's also the 1 year anniv of my mom's death next month which weighs heavily on me) and a lot crazy these days, I have only come here to read and to pay respects to those who have lost and and to those who needed prayers. But I do see the triumphs too and I am happy for all the OTJ kitties and grateful to everyone who has ever offered support to me and my boys.

Love to you all.

Have a great Sunday and see you soon...........

xoxo,
Caryl, Alex and Jackson
 
((((Caryl)))),
Thank you so much for posting. It is great to hear from you. I'm happy to hear a good report on Alex, even without the dental. I think you are doing the right thing by not doing it. Definitely too risky.

And big hugs to Jackson. You have been going through some tough times and it is wonderful to hear that Jackson can be treated and is doing pretty well.

And big hugs to you, especially with the upcoming anniversary of your mom passing away. My dad died 9 years ago, and every year on the anniversary of his death, I go into a pretty big depression. When someone we love so much passes away, the emptiness we feel also never completely goes away. Of course, the pain gets less and less and the good memories are remembered more and more. Sounds like your mom meant the world to you and you must have loved her very, very much.
 
(((((Caryl))))))
I am always praying for you and your boys.....i know it's been rough for you three.....

i know next month will be tough.....but know your mom is ALWAYS with you....

take one day at a time and make the most of it with your boys....that's what i do with Rocket.....

give those boys a kiss and a hug from me :)
 
(anti-jinx)Wonderful report!(anti-jinx)

My senior, Mario, is in the same boat as Alex...I know he has bad teeth, but because he's 17, HyperT, high BP, and borderline kidney issues, I won't risk his QOL by doing a dental at this point. Like Alex, he's happy and eats well - I just can't risk messing with that. Sometimes we have to make tough decisions to balance everything. I couldn't agree more about your decision for Alex.

Have you gotten to any/many Bruce shows? DH and I went to Philly on March 29, and we were so close we were resting our elbows on the stage. I was right in the corner where the "bump out" is, just a hair to the left of Bruce's mic. A little slice of heaven!!! We appear in a number of You Tube videous from that show. I've got tix for two if the dates in September. I wish I could quit my job and just follow him all over!

We will continue to hold you, Alex, and Jackson in our hearts and prayers, especially with the approaching anniversary of your mother's passing. Many hugs...

Amy
 
Thank you guys....

I think I'm making the right decision about the dental thing as well. Sorry I didn't answer sooner but I had to run out and when I got back I needed a nap. (It's been a rough few weeks-or months-? and I have been sleeping on the couch to be close to Jackson. I just went back tot he bedroom last night)

Thanks for understanding and Claudia I KNOW that you are always there for us as I am for you and Rocket )here and/or on FB ....thank you.

Georgia,
Thank you for the lovely thoughts about everything...my mom included.

And Amy...yes I did get to 2 Bruce shows. Opening night in NJ and the Prudential Center which was amazing. These were the first two shows that I wasn't in the pit in a very long time. I hurt my knee this year and there is just no way but I know what you mean:) I haven't gotten anything for Sept yet but I'm sure I'll hit one or two again. Maybe we'll meet up at one!

Thank you also for your very nice thoughts. I have gotten flack before for not doing dentals on Alex but at his life's risk...no way.

Love to you and your kitties
xoxo
 
(((Caryl)))). It's always great to hear how your sweet boys are doing. I'm glad Jackson is still with you. We've been down that CHF road.

Thinking of you at this difficult time. Its so hard to believe its been a year.....HUGS.
 
Thanks Marjorie,

It sure is hard to believe. I put on my big girl pants over Memorial Day weekend and went to visit my mom cause I needed to talk to her about Jackson. I was so scared. I never went alone in the 30 years my dad has been gone and I haven't been there since my mom's funeral but I was so sacred about Jackson that I needed her. It wasn't so scary after all. Sad. Very sad. But not so scary. Gee I miss her. I can't even bear the thought of losing either of my guys and Jackson is the one I really communicate with (if you get that), although I adore them both. I didn't think she helped at the time but now I'm wondering cause he wants me to take a break and give him and Alex some foodies now :)
 
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