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So as some of you know i adopted Brandy from the shelter a few weeks ago. I've tried a lot of alternate diet changes etc because the cost etc of insulin. I was just ready this week to give up and get the insulin when we found out my husbands 14 year old cat Scully has cancer and the outlook is very poor. So yesterday i was crying thinking how would i tell him. He loves this cat. So do I. And then today my 10 year old Molly died this afternoon completely unexpectedly while i was away. I didn't get to say goodbye. My husband found her dead on the bedroom floor. I've had Molly since She was 3 weeks old ad a stray. Ten years. She was fine. Her blood work 6 mos ago perfect. They just said she had a minor heart murmur but that's common. I am in shock and So sad. I came here becuz most people don't understand the pain or they simply don't care if its a cat. I care. Im so sad. Ive cried for hours. So now we have mounting sadness and cost with the cancer kitty scully and ive got a sweet sugar cat that seems to not be doing great either but i don't have unlimited funds. We have spent a ton on scully this past week. I am just heartbroken. Brandy the sugar cat comforts me and yet i can not do all i wish i could. Now i TRULY don't know what to do. Life is hard sometimes and people can be soooo cold and insensitive like becuz she was "just a cat" its silly to cry. That's why i love my fur babies so much. Wanted to vent to a group of people that can understand the love and the loss of our four legged furry kids. Thank you for 'listening" goodbye my sweet Molly. :(:(:(
 

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So very sorry for your loss and all the problems you are facing with the other two cats. Please know that all of us here do understand how much you care and how much it hurts. Sending lots of healing and comforting vibes to you and your fur babies. Hugs.:bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
Oh I'm SO SO sorry it was Molly's time to cross AND Scully's and Brandy's problems. It all piled on you at once. BIG HUGE LOOOOOOOOOOONG HUG and more...prayers for comfort too.

There is no such thing as 'just a cat' - they're living, breathing spiritual beings just like humans. I feel really sorry for anyone that truly says 'it's just a cat/dog/horse/gerbil/bird/frog...' - they are missing so much, their lives are so shallow.

Soar high on your new angel wings beautiful Molly....landing softly back in Mama's broken heart. Remember, she's not gone - you just have to hug her differently.
 
So sorry to hear about Molly!! We never have them long enough.

There's a fable I really like called "The Loving Ones" that I hope you'll read. It'll make you cry (I still cry when I read it) but in the tears there is healing.

Fly free Molly and land softly! There are many at the bridge to welcome you until the one you love most comes to be with you forever cat_wings>o
 
My heart goes out to you. Prayers and hugs. Hold the beautiful memories of Molly, your guardian angel.cat_wings>o
 
So sorry to hear about your sweet Molly. Sending prayers for you, your husband and all your fur babies:bighug:
 
I'm so sorry about Molly, I know how terribly it hurts to lose a beloved family member. Doubly hard is the stress you're under about Brandy and Scully. So, So sorry you're having to go through all this. Sending you lots of hugs, as well as prayers and healing vines. :bighug::bighug::bighug:

Fly free, beloved Molly cat_wings>o
 
Big hugs!!! You posted in the perfect place. Everyone here can't imagine losing a beloved pet and would never say such cruel things about a wonderful animal like a cat. :bighug::bighug:
 
I'm so very sorry for your difficult loss! cat_wings>o It never gets easier and hate when people say it's just an animal too! They are our little family and they all hold a special place in our heart. I know firsthand the pain of a kitty suddenly dying and not being able to say goodbye. That's how we lost our dear Timmy last summer at the young age of 7. My mother in law found him dead in the basement while we were at work. I ended up having an autopsy done because we had just lost his brother Toby 4 months earlier due to an acute hypercalcemia(unknown cause although he did struggle with chronic constipation/mega colon issues for years. No autopsy done but vet suspected a underlying lymphoma in the gut). The vet found that Timmy had a congenital heart defect and there was really nothing we could have done. Typically the first and only symptom is death. :( I just take comfort in knowing he had 7 happy healthy years with us. Toby on the other hand had a little rougher go with his issues but he was loved up to the fullest too. We had had them since they were just 4 months old. It's been over a year now and I still get bleary eyed when I think of my sweet boys. I miss them every day. cat_wings>o They never leave our hearts! Your Molly was a beautiful little girl. I hope Scully and Brandy pull through everything ok. Sending you and your kitties (((hugs)))
.... A pic of my sweet brotherscat_wings>o
 

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I had to get the tissues..So very very sorry about everything you are going through. We fall in love with our babies. They make us laugh, comfort us, drive us nuts at times, listen to our problems without judging us, love unconditionally. Take some comfort she left peacefully.

3 years ago I lost 2 within 2 weeks of each other. One we knew he was declining (naturally) and it was finally time to let him go. The other ended up going first, we had no idea she was sick. I cried for days and days. Then 2 years later a kitten showed up on my deck out of nowhere. He has the best traits of the 2. I believe they sent him to me knowing we were going to lose their friend but didn't know it yet. Last Thanksgiving she left us when an embolism hit @ 3am. It was the most heart breaking 45 minute drive to the hospital. I broke every rule of the road. She was in so much pain and there was nothing I could do.

Take all the time you need and don't worry what anyone else thinks. :bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
Oh noooooo. This is my worst fear is losing my kitties. I am so sorry about Molly. What a shock. So sorry that you are having to go through all of this with 2 other babies not well. That is a lot of stress. Feel however you need to and forget the ones who don't understand. Big hugs and peace for your heart and mind. Molly doesn't want you to be sad. She's with you.
 
I'm so sorry.
I lost my girl 2 months ago...... my comfort has been that my faith has strengthened and I Know I will hold her again.
Fly Free Molly....

We do all know she's not just a cat.... she was a best friend. Not only that, they spend more time with us often than any one else so it can be even harder
to lose them over a person in your family. Best friends can give unconditional love, people aren't so good at that.

Prayers for your grieving heart. :bighug:
 
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Oh I'm SO SO sorry it was Molly's time to cross AND Scully's and Brandy's problems. It all piled on you at once. BIG HUGE LOOOOOOOOOOONG HUG and more...prayers for comfort too.

There is no such thing as 'just a cat' - they're living, breathing spiritual beings just like humans. I feel really sorry for anyone that truly says 'it's just a cat/dog/horse/gerbil/bird/frog...' - they are missing so much, their lives are so shallow.

Soar high on your new angel wings beautiful Molly....landing softly back in Mama's broken heart. Remember, she's not gone - you just have to hug her differently.
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Omg that made me cry.
 
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I'm so very sorry to hear about Molly. Try not to feel bad that you didn't say goodbye - Molly knew you loved her every day for her whole life with you.
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Im Feeling guilty becuz the last two months i had less time for and i gave less attn. To my molly because of researching and trying to help brandys diabetes. Brandy is always in my lap and my Molly rarely got a chance. Of only i had known. Also this sounds so morbid but i decided to have her cremated and I hate the thought of my beautiful girl burning away. Crying. Her big fluffy tail was so beautiful and she was so furry and soft. I chose not to get ashes but to get them to do a paw print instead. I never expected this. For my girl to die before the cats that are sick. Even with all the pets in the house the feeling of her absence is so strong. My heart literally hurts.

Plus i wonder if i had done a heart exam would she still be here. They recommended an echo but made it seem like something to be done in the distant future. Not that it was URGENT. I know i should not be beating myself up but i miss her so much. She was my "pretty girl" that's what i always called her. She world run to the couch to be kissed when she would hear my keys jingle to leave the house.

So many memories are flooding my mind. I found my Molly at a temp job i was working at. The bldg. Maint. Man said he could hear stray kittens crying in his tool shed. They pulled out only two little tiny babies. Molly was handed to me. We brought them upstairs and they were so small their legs didn't fully work yet. Her and her brother cried That kitten meow to each other across the table. We bottle fed Molly for a week or so. She was through a hurricane with me...different moves..all kinds of stuff. I posted my loss on facebook with a ton on her photos over the years and only a handful of my friends replied. Not a word from all my family overseas.
Some people just clicked "like' (a few) is that really the world we are in where we can't spare a few seconds to type a personal message?. Maybe its just my 'friends". I feel that no one thinks its a big deal because she's "just a cat".

My coworker even said wellll you have OTHER cats. As if that makes it hurt less or they are not individuals.

So here i am again at a place i know people can understand. Even though my Molly didn't have diabetes i know people here get the loss and the deep sadness.

My husband understands and hes been beyond great.

Thank you everyone for your kind words..thoughts and prayers. Im less hysterical today but still extremely sad. :( im on my phone. Sorry its jumbled. Thank you for reading.
 
Smiley, I have been there, done that with the co-workers. They couldn't believe that I didn't have Shiloh PTS when she was diagnosed. I have had all of my recent passings cremated, but have chosen to get their ashes. I have three urns on my bookshelf. I wish I would have thought of the paw print as well. Again, huge hugs.
 
People have a hard time responding to loss. They don't know what to say. This it true when people die, or pets die. Sometimes saying nothing seems better. And people who have not been loved by an companion animal often don't understand the bond.

You shouldn't be so hard on yourself. Molly knew you loved her. Really she did. She understood your concern for Brandy. Though you might feel like you could of or should have done something different, there is no way you can predict a sudden death like that. Earlier tests might not have shown anything.

A few years ago my civie Emme suddenly couldn't stand. I rushed her to the vet. She was no longer making red blood cells - it was an autoimmune disease. She had been young and healthy. But we could not save her. I asked the vet if the outcome would have been different if we had done the right blood tests a few months earlier. He said that we would have know she was dying earlier. The end result would have been the same. Though in my heart I felt I had missed something and I was to blame, my head understood the truth of his statement.

So grieve, cherish her memory. She will always live on in your heart.
 
I was out of the house a while but As soon as i come home Im overcome with grief again. I know that I'll never see her fluffy self running to greet me. I'll never turn around to see her standing beside her best friend casey (my only dog) sadly watching me leave to go somewhere. When i got divorced years back Molly and casey were kind of all i had to comfort me at night when everyone else in the world was sleeping. We had a very strong bond. I miss my pretty girl so much. I just wish i could have said goodbye and pet her one more time :(............
 

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smiley747 said:
So as some of you know i adopted Brandy from the shelter a few weeks ago. I've tried a lot of alternate diet changes etc because the cost etc of insulin. I was just ready this week to give up and get the insulin when we found out my husbands 14 year old cat Scully has cancer and the outlook is very poor. So yesterday i was crying thinking how would i tell him. He loves this cat. So do I. And then today my 10 year old Molly died this afternoon completely unexpectedly while i was away. I didn't get to say goodbye. My husband found her dead on the bedroom floor. I've had Molly since She was 3 weeks old ad a stray. Ten years. She was fine. Her blood work 6 mos ago perfect. They just said she had a minor heart murmur but that's common. I am in shock and So sad. I came here becuz most people don't understand the pain or they simply don't care if its a cat. I care. Im so sad. Ive cried for hours. So now we have mounting sadness and cost with the cancer kitty scully and ive got a sweet sugar cat that seems to not be doing great either but i don't have unlimited funds. We have spent a ton on scully this past week. I am just heartbroken. Brandy the sugar cat comforts me and yet i can not do all i wish i could. Now i TRULY don't know what to do. Life is hard sometimes and people can be soooo cold and insensitive like becuz she was "just a cat" its silly to cry. That's why i love my fur babies so much. Wanted to vent to a group of people that can understand the love and the loss of our four legged furry kids. Thank you for 'listening" goodbye my sweet Molly. :(:(:(
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I am so so sorry for all you are going through. I completely understand, my animals are just as important and special to me as my daughter. It can get so expensive & at times its so upsetting because i know if I had more money I could do more for my sick kitty. But, what we do for our animals is MUCH MUCH more than most people!
it sounds like your animals are very lucky to have you!! Loving them & doing the best you can with the resources you have is better than what they'd have if they were living on the streets. & for them to be SO LOVED is the most important part!!
 
I am so very sorry about Molly. And I'm really sorry you have so much to handle all at once. It's clear how much you love your kitties.
The haters that tell us we shouldn't cry for our animals are just clueless... I am reminded of this quote:
"Until one has loved an animal a part of one's soul remains unawakened." -Anatole France
They don't get it because that part of their soul is still dormant. We all feel for you. Please let us know if you need anything.
 
Heartbreaking for you!! You are so worried about your ill cats, and the one you think is fine is the one who leaves you. What a shock!! And it's true, some people just don't get how deep the connection is between us and our animal companions. I'm very sorry for your loss. It won't be easy to deal with your fear, grief, and money woes all at once. I hope you have some friends and family nearby as well as here who will understand and support you. I hope also that you can feel the hugs and compassion sent to you from those of us who know what you must be feeling.--Nora and Kali
 
Oh, my heart is breaking for you! I'm so so sorry to hear about Molly! I wish I could give you a hug! You are such a good kitty mommy and it's so clear how much you love and care for each of your kitties. And you are absolutely right, each one is individual and unique and holds a special place in our hearts. Take comfort in knowing that every one of us here understands the connection with our fur-babies and we share in your grief. Sending you all of my love and prayers for your comfort. Keep posting here and sharing your stories as much as you need. We are all here to "listen".
 
This is so heartbreaking beyond words. Cherish and hold dear the precious memories and love you gave Molly. Celebrate the love and joys she gave you.

As painful as it was, may it help comfort you that Molly didn't suffer. She had a quality life, ten wonderful years.

You didn't neglect Molly and she knew that. Focus on what you did do for her for ten years, not what you should have done. Please do not blame yourself; you did nothing but shower her with a life of love.
 
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I know the heartbreak, and how your heart literally hurts. And I know how others in your life don't understand. It's so hard to lose a beloved pet, and even harder when you feel like no one understands the depth of your grief. Just know that everyone here does understand and, while we can't heal your heart, we're here to help or to listen whenever you need us.

Strength, love and hugs,
Lucy :bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
nora said:
Heartbreaking for you!! You are so worried about your ill cats, and the one you think is fine is the one who leaves you. What a shock!! And it's true, some people just don't get how deep the connection is between us and our animal companions. I'm very sorry for your loss. It won't be easy to deal with your fear, grief, and money woes all at once. I hope you have some friends and family nearby as well as here who will understand and support you. I hope also that you can feel the hugs and compassion sent to you from those of us who know what you must be feeling.--Nora and Kali
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Indeed it was a shock. Terrible shock
 
Cat Ma said:
This is so heartbreaking beyond words. Cherish and hold dear the precious memories and love you gave Molly. Celebrate the love and joys she gave you.

As painful as it was, may it help comfort you that Molly didn't suffer. She had a quality life, ten wonderful years.

You didn't neglect Molly and she knew that. Focus on what you did do for her for ten years, not what you should have done. Please do not blame yourself; you did nothing but shower her with a life of love.
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This is very comforting. Thank you
 
Squalliesmom said:
I know the heartbreak, and how your heart literally hurts. And I know how others in your life don't understand. It's so hard to lose a beloved pet, and even harder when you feel like no one understands the depth of your grief. Just know that everyone here does understand and, while we can't heal your heart, we're here to help or to listen whenever you need us.

Strength, love and hugs,
Lucy :bighug::bighug::bighug:
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Yes they think She was "just a cat"..even if they don't say it. I can tell. That makes it even worse. No one but me has the memories and special bond. Even my family. They are sad and i totally appreciate it but molly was closest with only me. It is an emptiness hard for most to understand but i know you all do.
 
Thank you all for your kind and compassionate words and thoughts. I really appreciate it. This morning the birds are singing so loudly. My Molly would be in the window happily watching and purring. The feeling of absence in the house is terrible.

I dont know what you all believe religously or spiritually here but something happened last night. It could be just coincidence. I know that but.... As i was falling asleep i was praying for Molly to cross over to the other side.. To the rainbow bridge. I woke up in the middle of the night. my hands were clasped together. I didn't fall asleep that way. One of the cats who NEVER lies with me (candy) was by my knee. I felt comforted and surprised she was there. I had lit the flameless candle in the window where she always spent her time. I put it there along with a teddy bear cat that reminds me of my molly and her beautiful fluffy tail, her photos and her ten year old cat nip filled teddy bear. Right at that moment when i woke up feeling a little comforted, the candle light went out. Maybe the battery died at that exact moment. Maybe my pretty girl crossed over. Who knows. Either way i love and miss my baby. I felt a brief moment of peace. But i still feel my heavy heart. :(
 
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I was out of the house a while but As soon as i come home Im overcome with grief again. I know that I'll never see her fluffy self running to greet me. I'll never turn around to see her standing beside her best friend casey (my only dog) sadly watching me leave to go somewhere. When i got divorced years back Molly and casey were kind of all i had to comfort me at night when everyone else in the world was sleeping. We had a very strong bond. I miss my pretty girl so much. I just wish i could have said goodbye and pet her one more time :(............
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I had my babies cremated. The place t h at does it takes a paw print and the ashes are put in a velvet pouch in a hand carved box. I put their ashes in my flower garden and Mark the spots with a rock. This way I can talk to them, vent, cry whenever I need to. They are always there for me.
 
@smiley747

This is so beautiful. I had to get out the tissues. Thank you for sharing a very special, beautiful moment in time with us. Clearly something magical happened. Candy surely must have gotten a sign, a message from Molly to be with you as Molly crossed the Rainbow Bridge.
 
smiley747 said:
So as some of you know i adopted Brandy from the shelter a few weeks ago. I've tried a lot of alternate diet changes etc because the cost etc of insulin. I was just ready this week to give up and get the insulin when we found out my husbands 14 year old cat Scully has cancer and the outlook is very poor. So yesterday i was crying thinking how would i tell him. He loves this cat. So do I. And then today my 10 year old Molly died this afternoon completely unexpectedly while i was away. I didn't get to say goodbye. My husband found her dead on the bedroom floor. I've had Molly since She was 3 weeks old ad a stray. Ten years. She was fine. Her blood work 6 mos ago perfect. They just said she had a minor heart murmur but that's common. I am in shock and So sad. I came here becuz most people don't understand the pain or they simply don't care if its a cat. I care. Im so sad. Ive cried for hours. So now we have mounting sadness and cost with the cancer kitty scully and ive got a sweet sugar cat that seems to not be doing great either but i don't have unlimited funds. We have spent a ton on scully this past week. I am just heartbroken. Brandy the sugar cat comforts me and yet i can not do all i wish i could. Now i TRULY don't know what to do. Life is hard sometimes and people can be soooo cold and insensitive like becuz she was "just a cat" its silly to cry. That's why i love my fur babies so much. Wanted to vent to a group of people that can understand the love and the loss of our four legged furry kids. Thank you for 'listening" goodbye my sweet Molly. :(:(:(
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I am so, so sorry for your loss.
Surround yourself with love and support and avoid those who diminish the absolute tragedy of your experience. Your grief is true, real and to be respected.
 
So i took today off to try and regroup. But Brandy the diabetic hasc developed a "third eyelid" so i had to take her to the same vet i was at on Friday where i said goodbye to my Molly. I dont like the doctor. Hes very smart but has the sensitivity of a freaking cyborg but the nice doctor was out and couldn't find anyone else last minute. I said to him wow its hard to be here and he was like well we can use another room..ugh. Thennnnn he said wow you've really had a tough week. Your cat died..you have the diabetic and Your husbands cat "HAS ONE FOOT IN THE GRAVE". Really? Woww. I could tell he has a dry witty humor but he doesn't know me like that. I've met him once. He did say: well you know i don't sugar coat things. WELLLL NOOO KIDDING. I just said well i need a little sugar. Our pets are very special to us. We then went back to Brandy (sugar cat) and Hes said look you Either treat or put her down and dont feel bad about that. It is a reasonable option. That part was him just trying to not let me feel guilty but really? I told him he needs to work on his bedside manner. I can't believe the man is married. With a coldness like that i don't know how he got that far. I can not believe he said one foot in the hrave about scully (cancer kitty) my husband would not like that. I didn't have the heart to tell him and i wont. We were ok when i left but the more i think about it the more upset I'm getting. I think he is a jerk or just very intelligent but With ZEEERRROO people skills/compassion. I know I'm sensitive but i think that was crazy. He thinks its all good. I'm waiting on her blood work. They also took a cast of my molly (the one who passed a few days ago) paw for me to keep. If not otherwise i might REALLY let him have it. He said he doesnt 'sugar coat" well ya know sometimes you NEED TO especially for us at this time. I called other vets for brandy but can't find anyone open past 5. I'll have to keep looking. Ughhhhh. I am sorry to ramble. Im so stressed and confused and angry. I know men are not as sensitive as women but commmmme on.
 
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So i took today off to try and regroup. But Brandy the diabetic hasc developed a "third eyelid" so i had to take her to the same vet i was at on Friday where i said goodbye to my Molly. I dont like the doctor. Hes very smart but has the sensitivity of a freaking cyborg. I said to him wow its hard to be here and he was like well we can use another room..ugh. Thennnnn he said wow you've really had a tough week. Your cat died..you have the diabetic and Your husbands cat "HAS ONE FOOT IN THE GRAVE". Really? Woww. I could tell he has a dry witty humor but he doesn't know me like that. I've met him once. He did well you know i don't sugar coat things. WELLLL NOOO KIDDING. I just said well i need a little sugar. Our pets are very special to us. We then went back to Brandy (sugar cat) and Hes said look you Either treat or put her down and dont feel bad about that. It is a reasonable option. That part was him just trying to not let me feel guilty but really? I told him he needs to work on his bedside manner. I can't believe the man is married. With a coldness like that i don't know how he got that far. I can not believe he said one foot in the hrave about scully (cancer kitty) my husband would not like that. I didn't have the heart to tell him and i wont. We were ok when i left but the more i think about it the more upset I'm getting. I think he is a jerk or just very intelligent but With ZEEERRROO people skills/compassion. I know I'm sensitive but i think that was crazy. He thinks its all good. I'm waiting on her blood work. They also took a cast of my molly (the one who passed a few days ago) paw for me to keep. If not otherwise i might REALLY let him have it. I thought he was a real arrogant prick. He said he doesnt 'sugar coat" well ya know sometimes you NEED TO especially for us at this time. I called other vets for brandy but can't find anyone open past 5. I'll have to keep looking. Ughhhhh. I am sorry to ramble. Im so stressed and confused and angry. I know men are not as sensitive as women but commmmme on.
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Oh, I'm so so sorry you had to go through all this! Oh my goodness! That guy sounds like something else...
Sending hugs.
 
Also yes i agree we either treat her or dont let her suffer. I know that. That's why i took her in today becuz i was worried. I have no plans to let ANY of my pets suffer. i am just at a loss. And the receptionist said oh boy ill kill him. I can't believe he said that. I feel angry. She laughed and said he doesn't realize. He means well. Really? Wheerree?... He did more blood work today to check for other concerns and it cost total visit about 150. Costs are mounting all around. We will discuss insulin treatment after blood work but now i feel like i can't ever go there again. I just can't mesh with someone so robotic and inappropriate. But i have to start over i guess with new vet and also wait for Molly's paw print. Sigh
 
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I told him he needs to work on his bedside manner.
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Good for you for speaking up. Clearly his comments and the receptionist's comments are not appropriate nor funny. I would have been very upset if my vet said what yours did about Scully. That is unprofessional and heartless. Feline diabetes is very manageable thanks to FDMB.

I hope you'll be able to find a better vet with a more professional bedside manner who will give you more hope. There are wonderful, empathetic male and female vets out there.
 
Also this is the vet office i was excited to have found becuz of the other doc (but she's only there part time)
 
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Good for you for speaking up. Clearly his comments and the receptionist's comments are not appropriate nor funny. I would have been very upset if my vet said what yours did about Scully. That is unprofessional and heartless. Feline diabetes is very manageable thanks to FDMB.

I hope you'll be able to find a better vet with a more professional bedside manner who will give you more hope. There are wonderful, empathetic male and female vets out there.
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Thank you. I just can not believe it. Empathy is the word i was looking for. It felt like i was talking to a narcissist or a robot. Im so upset the more i think about it. That was so heartless to say about our poor scully.
 
:bighug::bighug::bighug: I'm sorry about Molly. I truly believe that when the candle went out, That she crossed the rainbow bridge and that she was letting you know that she is safe. She knows that you love her very much.
Disregard what other people think. They are just ignorant. When my Michael was first diagnosed with DB, I had a person say to me "Have you considered putting him down"? People who have never had animals or have never been close to them just don't understand, and as far as am concerned there is no excuse for that comment. It's so cold. My Michael is now in remission and is doing well.
Please know that we are all grieving with you, and know what you are going through.:bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
Don't worry about people like that.
They are idiots
I'm very sorry for your loss.
I lost my Foxie not long ago and think of her a lot,She was my first cat and l love her
Liliana
 
As hard it is, let go of the vet's toxic words and focus on healing for yourself as well as for Brandy and Scully. I know it's easier said than done but don't let his remarks tear your world apart. Can you just deal with the vet you like that works part time and see if she can call you on her days off? If not, perhaps see if she can refer you to someone in another veterinary practice.
 
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As hard it is, let go of the vet's toxic words and focus on healing for yourself as well as for Brandy and Scully. I know it's easier said than done but don't let his remarks tear your world apart. Can you just deal with the vet you like that works part time and see if she can call you on her days off? If not, perhaps see if she can refer you to someone in another veterinary practice.
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Not sure. Ill figure it out. I will talk to her. Poor brandy is hiding. She's had enough for today.
 
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