8/10 Tuscany amps ~232, +4~115, pmps~260

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joyce-tuscany(GA)

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No previous post - it was awhile ago. Numbers have been mostly yellow as we continue our hospice care. We get a few blues on some mid cycle checks but we aren't being very aggressive nor checking very frequently. I did update the SS

Tuscany's mass is still growing - the original site on the wrist is now very tense - full. I am not sure how much longer the skin will stay intact around that - surely it can't keep stretching it feels so tight now. Her limp is very pronounced. I have tightened up her circle of travel even more. The litter box, food, and her favorite bed are within 6-8 feet of each other now. She still will get up and come into the kitchen when we have our dinner - she has to get her hand outs you know. She really hates the days we just have tomatoes and corn - nothing she likes. She sits and stares til I get up and find something else for her to snack on.

Tuscany still purrs when we love on her. She still seems to be alert when she is awake - surveying us from her bed, checking it out. She will occassionally take a swipe at Josie if she comes too close. The little trips outside are still a hit - she loves sitting in the grass and having a few nibbles and complains when we make her come in.

I have been trying to engage DH in conversation about when the right time will be to PTS. I know it isn't today but I am getting more focused on when. I am surprised that the decline has been a slowish as it has been. If it wasn't for the limping you really wouldn't know that she was anything besides a senior cat who sleeps all day. My DS was here this weekend (3 peeps Wed-Sunday, 16 for dinne on of those nights. ) she was surprised that I haven't PTS yet - she felt that maybe Tuscany was in more pain than I think and that since it is only a matter of few weeks - month tops and that I should move forward. It is hard to know and we do want to do the right thing by her. Depressing thoughts - it is partially why I haven't been opening a condo daily - (besides all that company). I am sure you guys don't want to hear the same thing everyday from me.
 
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joyce, this condo to me sounds like you are talking about a happy kitty .. like you said yourself, you wouldn't know she is fighting anything, if it wasn't for that limp .. if she's purring, and eating, going outside, and generally happy overall, well I guess I would just enjoy the days you have and when it's time to think about other things, you will ...
 
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we're a part of this journey and welcome any updates. if you need to share, please do.

i agree with peter/devon...tuscany seems at peace and happy. you live with her, you know.

pets to tuscany. she emailed six today and requested some yummy dinner treats tonight. no tomatoes or corn, ok?
 
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(((Joyce))) I agree with Devon/Peter too. If she is still happy, still looking for treats at dinner time, etc then it is not time yet. I believe she will let you know.

Scritches to Tuscany.
 
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At least in my limited experience, they let you know. Or, sometimes, they make the decision for you.

I know it's summer and the tomatoes and corn is great, but... a little protein with those veggies would make for a happier kitty.
 
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Dear JOYCE--When the bad days out number the good ones--That's the key!
As these are my first cats, well I dont have the experience, but have had 4 droolers & I knew every time It was their time-
Dont let other people's perceptions of what is right, influence what you feel--Outsiders and family members think I have done an injustice by keeping MY cat well!! and alive!!!!
OMG 2 shots a day?? BG tests?? Limping Moonie from neuropathy??
Surely she is in pain, ill, suffering??? well that's their perceptions..
I know My cat & we here know Ours INTIMATELY, like their every move & breath...We here have been through what most pet owners dont go through, caring for a cat with a life threatening illness...
Let Tuscany be your guide, and as others have said, You will know--
We are here for YOU!! Big Hugs to all of you!
 
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(((Joyce))) When relatives or friends question our actions with our kitties it does make you stop and rethink things, doesn't it? I recall a friend's reaction to my giving them shots of insulin twice a day... "But, they ARE just CATS, aren't they?" People have different ways of looking at things...

But, those people cannot understand what we all "know". They would not go the distance with thier pets...if they eve HAVE any... But you are different...and we all feel the same way as you do.
We know that you love Tuscany and although she has this problem now, the quality of her life is such that she is not suffering. You speak of things she loves to do and the way she acts when she gets no treats at dinner....we all understand. And what everyone has said here is so true....
WCF and her wonderful links .... ;-) Read that carefully. I agree that you will know when it is time.
It is so good to read your reports....please don't stop because you think we don't want to hear about you or Tuscany....we do love to hear what's new and how you are both doing...sending hugs to both of you....from the 3 of us... :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG: :YMHUG:
 
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((( Joyce ))) You know we would worry if you weren't checking in. This is one of the few places you can unload your feelings and we'll understand.
 
Thank you everyone for your kind words today - they were very helpful in reassuring me that we are doing ok - all things considering. Thanks WCF for the QOL test - we are still very much in the viable stage. I needed to hear your words today- I needed to take them to heart today. Hugs to you all.
 
And many hugs to you Joyce. Loving Tuscany the way you do is a beautiful thing to read - whenever you post. cat_pet_icon
 
((((Joyce)))) ((((Tuscany))))

it does sound like Tuscany is still ok, especially if she is giving you attitude about your dinner. :lol: Just keep spoiling her, it will make both of you happier.
 
Hi Joyce, Tuscany sounds like she is still involved in her life with her family. Believe me, they do let you know when it is their time. Just keep on loving her and rejoicing that she is engaged. She is a very special kitty and very brave. You are doing everything right.
Many hugs,

Ella & Stu
 
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